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12 Tell-tale Signs You Are Dating A S£x Addict

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Today is Awareness day, no naughty post today guys. Let's get to know our $exual selves more.

Are you a $ex addict? Has the thought ever crossed your mind or has your partner ever mentioned it to you and you waved it off? 

Or maybe you are dating a s£x addict and you are not aware of it. Okay, maybe you are a little bit aware but you are not sure.

Most people never connect addiction to s€x! They don't know whether the s€x they are having is addictive or not. 
They just feel it is fun and should be had anytime, anywhere. People only see alcohol and drugs as addictives; $ex is never on their list.

A lot of us like s€x a lot and we are not shy to explore and experiment with different partners just to discover how much pleasure our bodies can handle or how fulfilling s£x can be.

People have s£x for various reasons ranging from curiosity to emotional connection to exploration then finally to $exual satisfaction.

But do we know when it's too much? Is there even a limit?

It may come as a…

How To Get Out Of The Friend Zone In 8 Simple Steps

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A few days ago I wrote a post on 'the friend zone" and I listed a few signs that could show you whether you are really in the friend zone or not. 
If you've confirmed that you are, I'm sorry if you feel hurt by that discovery but not to worry, I think I can help you get out of the mess. 
But before I continue, I want to throw a few questions around; what did you do when you realised that you were in the friend zone? 
Did you go to your best friend and start a fight? I hope you did not because that would be a terrible thing to do. But even if you did, I guess there wasn't much harm done?
I know exactly how you feel right now. I know you just want to get this over with and live happily ever after with your boo. 

Yeah, that's everyone's dream, right? If that's what you want then follow these steps:
* Tell her exactly how you feel:
Now that you're ready to step up your game, my advice is to be a man and tell her how you feel about her. 

You have to choose the …

6 UNDENIABLE SIGNS YOU ARE IN THE FRIEND ZONE

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My long time friend has a best friend who happens to be a girl he is madly in love with but he can't tell her that he loves her because he is afraid of ruining the friendship they share.
So, he is just playing along and being the best friend she could ever have while dying in silence. Well, I know he is not the only one with this problem.
I know so many people who are in this dilemma of unrequited love. They know they are in the "friend zone" but can't do anything to get out of it.
Some people don't even know if they belong to this group of people or not.
What does friend zone mean?
The "friend zone" refers to a situation where there is a mismatch in romantic feelings between two individuals.
It is a situation where one person is interested in romance while the other wants to "just be friends".
At other times, the friends are already s*xually involved (i.e. friends-with-benefits), but there is a commitment mismatch, where only one person wants a &quo…

SHOULD YOU MAINTAIN CONTACT WITH YOUR EX?

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On Valentine's Day, I received a call from my ex. He just wanted to check up on me and ask how I was enjoying my Val. 

A part of me knew he just wanted to find out if I was celebrating it alone or with someone special. 

Or maybe I just wanted him to think that. Maybe it would be consoling if I thought that he still cared about me. 

I secretly wished he would tell me he missed me terribly and wanted me back. But it didn't happen!!    
After I hung up the phone, my friend who was listening to our conversation asked who had called and when I told her it was my ex, she just rolled her eyes and hissed out loud. 

The next thing she said was “na who ex don help for this life? I was baffled by her question and I asked if she wasn't in touch with any of her exes and she replied with a loud "God forbid". 

When I asked her why she felt that way towards her exes, she narrated her ordeal to me.     
Her last relationship was with one of her church members. He also happened to be her…

Q&A Friday: If You Could Be Stranded On An Island With One Person, Who Would It Be?

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Just imagine you are traveling by ship to a faraway distance and all of a sudden the ship capsizes in the middle of nowhere. By sheer luck and divine intervention, you and one other person survive. 
When you look around you, the only helpful things you see are an emergency boat, a first aid box, bottles of water and some food. Both of you hurriedly pack these things and get into the emergency boat without a clue of where you are or where you are going.
You drift around for a long time and finally get to a deserted island. It’s a beautiful island of course, but the horrible fact remains that you are stranded with one person and you don't know if you would ever get out. If you could choose one person who would be stranded with you on that island, who would you choose?


8 Sure Ways To Keep A Long Distance Relationship Alive

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Hi guys, if you've been following my blog for a while now, I want to use this medium to appreciate you for taking out time to read my posts. 

I know you're all busy with a lot of stuff but somehow you find the time to visit my blog. I really appreciate your efforts. 


Today, I would like to take a look at a recurring issue in relationships; long distance. In one of my old posts titled "My first Love", I wrote about my bitter sweet experience with my first boyfriend ever. 

While we were still together in school, our love was great and we seemed inseparable but the moment my boo graduated, things turned sour and we had to go our separate ways. 

Back then, I didn't think of any reason or cause for our break up; I just concluded that maybe we just drifted apart but now that I think of it, I blame our break up on long distance. 
Why? After my boo graduated, our communication level decreased drastically and gradually we stopped keeping in touch with each other. 

Of course, …