Monday, 21 August 2017

10 Awesome Ways To Make Your Woman Feel Loved And Special



I know you're probably thinking "What's the big deal in making a woman feel loved or special". Women only need money right? Well, sometimes but not all the time.

Women are complicated creatures; sometimes you feel you're getting it alright and bae is feeling you so bad but suddenly an alarm goes off!

Friday, 18 August 2017

Naughty Friday: Does Size Really Matter?




I was talking with my girls the other day and somehow we landed into "guys gist". One of us asked if size really mattered when you love a guy.

The gist bordered on which size was more satisfying and whether there was any difference in a right curved d*ck and a left curved one. How about the upward curved one?

Wednesday, 16 August 2017

8 Obvious Reasons Why Men Cheat




Every woman would love to be the only woman in her man's life but it doesn't always turn out that way. 

Every woman wants a man who would have her and be satisfied; we want to be enough for our men. 

But sometimes, men cheat and they may or may not have genuine reasons for doing what they do.

Monday, 14 August 2017

Should I Date My Friend's Ex?



Two years ago, my friend and her husband had a nasty divorce due to irreconcilable issues. At the time of their divorce, she confided in me a lot—she told me they didn’t love each other anymore and that's why they fell apart.

I felt there was something more she wasn't saying but I didn’t press further; I just pretended to believe her.

Saturday, 12 August 2017

7 Secrets Every Nigerian Lady Keeps From Her Man



Every Nigerian lady has a secret. Many secrets they never tell anyone.

They hide them in the deepest part of their hearts for fear that people will see them as terrible women. 

They are afraid to speak up for fear that their partners will either leave them or never trust them again. 

Sometimes, the only person who knows about the secret is someone who is very close to them or someone who is also a partner in crime.

Some of the secrets ladies hide from men include:

Friday, 11 August 2017

Naughty Friday: 5 Tips To Get Regular Blow Jobs




Every sane man loves getting head. Maybe even insane men enjoy it too. Some men prefer getting head to having several rounds of s£x.

But, unfortunately, not all men are lucky enough to get blow jobs as often as they want.

If you want to get regular blowjobs from your girlfriend or any girl at all, grab these awesome tips:

Thursday, 10 August 2017

5 Obvious Reasons Why Igbo Men Never Get Married Early


I was chatting with a close friend today and somehow we landed into marriage gist. 

When I told him I was planning on settling down soon, his reply was "You're a Lady na! We men have a longer way to go." 

Trust me, I didn't leave the matter at that so I asked him "Your mates never marry?" He laughed and said "Am an Igbo boy. It's not the same for us."

Tuesday, 8 August 2017

3 Crazy Reasons Why Typical Yoruba Men Love Fleshy Women




I watched an American movie several years ago titled "Phat Girlz". It featured two plus-sized ladies and a skinny lady. 

Monique, one of the two plus-sized girls was an aspiring designer who was obsessed with her weight.

Since they were in America where skinny or thin is the reigning thing, the skinny lady enjoyed a lot of attention from men while the fat ladies hardly ever received as much as a glance.

Monday, 7 August 2017

Who Should You Marry?



Who should I choose? Who should I marry? These are the possible questions that could run through the mind of a lady faced with the choice of selecting the most suitable life partner. 

At age 16, young girls have the perfect picture of the man they would likely end up with. Their diaries usually contain a list of traits or features the dream guy should possess.

Saturday, 5 August 2017

The 5 Serial Killers Of a Relationship




Sometime ago, I wrote on 9 reasons why communication is essential in every relationship. If you haven’t read it, click HERE. This post is like an antidote for relationship problems that are related to communication.

Every relationship faces challenges every now and then. These challenges are often associated with communication; it could be the awful things we said or the soothing words we refused to say. 


Often times, the things we fight about may not even be the immediate causes of the fight; most quarrels begin a long time inside our minds before we spill out our guts. 

Friday, 4 August 2017

Naughty Friday: 6 Genuine Reasons Why Your Husband Won’t Have S£x With You




During the week, I received an email from a young lady who has been married for two years. In her email, she complained bitterly of how her husband won’t have s£x with her.

I had earlier wanted to just reply her and then forget about it but then I remembered that she possibly couldn’t be the only one going through similar marital issues.

There a lot of women who haven’t felt their husband’s touch in years. It may sound strange, but it is true!

Today’s naughty Friday is targeted at helping married women revive their s£x lives with their spouses.

Thursday, 3 August 2017

10 Easy Ways To Mend a Broken Relationship




Relationship is work. Marriage is even harder work. Everyone knows that but it is easily forgotten in an angry moment. It is so easy to dash everything against the wall and say "Go to hell, I don't need you!"

But, deep down, we yearn for someone's tender touch, warm hugs and affectionate kisses. 

We yearn for attention and recognition even though we are often too proud to say it. 

We are scared to become vulnerable to another person and so we drown in our own loneliness.

Thursday, 27 July 2017

8 Visible Signs You And Your Partner Are Too Close




Some women find it easier talking to their partner about every single problem while others prefer talking to their girlfriends.

If you fall among the group of women who strive to maintain a close relationship with their spouse through communication, you may be seen as being “too independent” or “private” by people around you.

Your family members and friends may not really understand why you are so attached to your partner. They would all prefer it if you were closer to them and share your private life with them.

Wednesday, 19 July 2017

7 Simple Rules Of Staying Connected To Your Partner





If you ask me, "What do couples fight about most?" My answer would be absolutely nothing. 

From experience, I've noticed that a lot of couples fight about unnecessary issues that can be easily avoided by the both of parties.

But, some couples just enjoy the tension that comes with a fight and so, they fight about practically everything including the remote control and microwave.

Look at this example:

Friday, 14 July 2017

Naughty Friday: 9 Mistakes Women Make During S£x




Last week, I wrote about The Obvious Mistakes Men Make During S£x and I know that the guys won’t be happy because they feel cheated. 

I’m sure they were asking “Is it only the men that make mistakes in bed? 
How about the women? Are they exempted?” 

Of course not! That’s why I’ve decide to talk about the mistakes women make during s£x. 

Okay ladies, it's your turn. Pay attention!

Monday, 10 July 2017

5 Genuine Reasons Why Listening Is Important In Your Relationship





The art of listening is truly a gift that very few people have. Most people only learn how to talk but they never  bother to master the art of listening.

There are people who talk all day without stopping to listen to what someone else is saying.

Women are often guilty of not listening. They seem so busy with whatever they are doing that they just hear words, give nasty replies and then go back to their businesses.

Men are not exempted either but women are definitely the most guilty. It is no surprise to know that a large number of relationships fall apart due to lack of communication.

Friday, 7 July 2017

Naughty Friday: 10 Mistakes Men Make During S£x




This Friday, I’m going to focus on the men and their bedroom skills. Some men really know what it takes to get down with a woman but a few still don’t get it.

They don’t much about the s£x department except to dip the stick into the honey pot and bring out when it is limp.

There’s a lot more attached to s£x than just your own satisfaction. S£x is an art that involves tenderness, passion, desire, patience and love. It should be beautiful and amazing!

Monday, 3 July 2017

7 Reasons Why Your African Parents Want You Married




This post is actually overdue. I was supposed to have written it earlier this year but somehow I kept postponing it until I saw a friend’s Facebook status about how her parents and relatives keep disturbing her concerning marriage. 

They’ve been pestering her for some time to bring a suitor to them. Every time she visits, their conversations always tilt towards marriage and a suitable life partner. 

Saturday, 24 June 2017

8 Silly Mistakes Girls Make With Their Sugar Daddies




When girls start dating older men for the first time, they tend to be shy or too nice. Sometimes, they don't even know what to expect or what to really do.

They just allow their sugar daddies to make all the rules in their relationship since they were the ones who did the chasing. It shouldn't be so.

Friday, 23 June 2017

Naughty Friday: 8 Types Of S£x Every Couple Should Definitely Have




Last night, while pillow talking with my sweetheart after a hot and steamy exercise ( **winks** you know what I mean), we analyzed the evolution of our s£x life.


Back in the university days, we had more spontaneous and adventurous s£x; we had experimental s£x, emotional s£x, crazy s£x, make-up s£x and even unnamed s£x. It was fun and exciting all the way!

Tuesday, 20 June 2017

The Pros & Cons Of Marrying An Older Man




A friend of mine got married to an older man a few years ago. She seemed so happy at first; she posted a lot of pictures of her and her new hubby on social media. 

After about a year, she moved out of her husband’s house. She got a new job in another city and started her life afresh.

Friday, 16 June 2017

7 Things A Man Really Wants In A Relationship




What do men really want? This is one of the most frequently asked questions under relationship matters.

Every woman seeks an answer to this question. If there is one question for which every woman wants an answer, this is surely it.

Monday, 5 June 2017

9 Realistic Ways You Can Keep Your Relationship Healthy




With so much advice out there on how to maintain or rebuild your relationship, it could get overwheming just trying to keep up with your relationship.

There are so many do's and don'ts that you are confused about which ones to take and which ones to ignore. That's why I decided to write these realistic tips on how to keep your already healthy relationship in tact.

Wednesday, 31 May 2017

How I Suffered And Survived Domestic Violence



My name is Alacia Hightower and I am a survivor of Child Abuse that led to Domestic Violence and S£xual Abuse as an adult.

At a very young age, I experienced child abuse at the hands of my father who was a Vietnam War Veteran. Not only did I experience the abuse, I also was a witness to the Domestic Violence that my mother experienced.

Saturday, 27 May 2017

How To Overcome S£x Addiction In 6 Simple Steps




Last week, I wrote on 12 Signs You Are Dating A S£x Addict. If you've not had the chance to read that post, please do so before reading this one.

In my previous post, I listed various signs that a s£x addict may portray. If you find out you or your partner is a s£x addict, what should you do about it?

Friday, 19 May 2017

12 Tell-tale Signs You Are Dating A S£x Addict




Today is Awareness day, no naughty post today guys. Let's get to know our $exual selves more.


Are you a $ex addict? Has the thought ever crossed your mind or has your partner ever mentioned it to you and you waved it off? 


Or maybe you are dating a s£x addict and you are not aware of it. Okay, maybe you are a little bit aware but you are not sure.

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