Thursday, 27 April 2017

Should You Date Your Co-Worker?




Last year, I worked in an educational institution for some time. During my leisure, I would sit in the staff room with my coworkers either to eat or to discuss certain issues. 

Everyone was trying to get acquainted with one another but we didn't really have the time to associate properly till after school hours.

Wednesday, 26 April 2017

Top 6 Reasons Some Ladies Are Still Single


Some time ago, at a friend's wedding, someone asked me "why are you still single"? 

For five minutes, I stood there dumbfounded with my mouth hanging open, staring at this single lady who was asking another single lady why she was unmarried. 

Sunday, 23 April 2017

The Different Communication Styles Of Men And Women




When you and your spouse discuss a problem, do you seem to end up further apart than when you started the conversation? 

Do you think your partner takes issues too lightly or too seriously? 

Do you feel your partner doesn't listen enough before he makes his conclusions? It all boils down to our communication style. 

Bridging The Communication Gap In Your Relationship






A man suspected his wife of cheating on him after a few years of their marriage. 

He knew he wasn’t imagining things because all of a sudden, she developed a habit of coming home late, sweaty and tired. 

Sunday, 16 April 2017

Happy 1st Anniversary Mr & Mrs Javis Ighodaro



Last year, sometime in April, I featured a wedding on my blog. It was the first wedding to be featured on my blog and I was thrilled. Did you read the love story? If you didn't, you can find it here FRANCA WEDS JAVIS

Today makes it one year since the couple got married and I will be featuring the anniversary on my blog too.


MEET THE AWESOME COUPLE:


                       


Do you remember how they met? Okay. Let me remind you.

They met during their NYSC in 2013. They were both serving in Imo state at the time. Several months after their service ended, Javis proposed and they got married.

THE WEDDING:

  
               


The wedding took place on April 16th, 2016 in Benin City. The colours of the day were Red and White. It was a simple yet elegant wedding; just family members and close friends attended to celebrate the union.


TO THE WONDERFUL COUPLE:



On this very day last year you stood on the altar and took your vows. You promised to stick together no matter what.

You've been married for a year now. The journey is still very long so don't you dare give up on each other.

When it gets overwhelming and difficult to continue, pray and ask for God's Guidance; He will guide you.

Remember, nothing good comes easy even marriage. You need to keep working to ensure nothing pulls you apart.

I wish you both a healthy and strong marriage! Happy Anniversary Mr and Mrs Javis Ighodaro.

May your marriage continue to grow with love, peace and prosperity.

Sunday, 9 April 2017

12 Shocking Reasons Why Some Marriages Fail




Until we have seen someone's darkness, we don't really know who they are. Until we have forgiven someone's darkness, we don't really know what love is ~Marianne Williamson~


Many people are married today but not all of them are happy in those marriages. Marriage takes a lot of hard work and patience but not everyone knows that. 

A strong marriage isn't magically created when you say "I do"... It is built on a lifetime of "I dos": I do love you, I do cherish you, I do forgive you and I do trust you.

Saturday, 8 April 2017

The Best Way To Punish Your Ex And Get Sweet Revenge




Did someone special break your heart recently and you're wondering what you can do to revenge? 

Have you tried other means of punishment but you're still not satisfied? Put a smile on your face dear, I have some tricks up my sleeve. 


I have used this method countless times on all my exes and it has always worked like magic.

Friday, 7 April 2017

Naughty Friday: Top 6 Reasons Why You Should Have S£x Outside The Bedroom





We love our beds. They are really cozy. Soft, comfortable, familiar and homey with pillow cases and satin beddings. Cozy, cozy, cozy.

No wonder the only thing you want to do on it is, make sweet love and sleep all day. Yeah me too! But it's naughty down here this Friday so you can forget about your bed this weekend.

Thursday, 6 April 2017

Questions That Will Save Your Relationship From Drowning




As a teenager, I used to watch my mom joggling three kids while doing house chores and running errands all day.

She was a very busy housewife who loved her family thoroughly. She was so busy, so tidy, so perfect.

Now that I think of it, I think she was a perfectionist. My memory of her is filled with spotless floors, clean curtains, good food and sparkling bathrooms.

Tuesday, 4 April 2017

14 Deadly Mistakes You Keep Making In Your Relationship And How To Avoid Them.




As humans we make a lot of mistakes everyday; in our jobs, our businesses and even our relationships. Deadly mistakes that we regret for a long time.

Sometimes, these mistakes are so deadly that they cost us a lot of pain and heartache.

We may never be able to undo these mistakes but we make up our minds never to allow them repeat themselves.


If you've ever made a mistake that almost or completely tore your relationship apart, then this post is for you.

If you keep ending up with broken relationships and you simply don't know why, this post is absolutely meant for you.


Deadly mistakes you need to avoid in your relationship are:


#1 Not Saying Sorry When You Should:


The number one mistake people make in their relationship is refusing to say sorry when they should.

Often times, saying sorry is all we need to prevent our relationship from breaking apart. Practice saying sorry even when you are not at fault.

#2 Taking Your Partner For Granted:


Another huge mistake some people make is getting so familiar with their partners that they lose respect for them and start taking them for granted.

They speak to them in harsh tones, walk out on them during discussions, reveal their secrets to others and never consult them before making big decisions. The solution: Never take your partner for granted!

#3 Not Communicating Your Feelings:


Another big mistake people make in their relationships is refusing to communicate their feelings to their partners even when they should. They hide their grievances, pain and anger deep within their hearts.

They refuse to communicate how they feel until it becomes so unbearable and their feelings explode like bombs leaving their partners dumbfounded.

The solution: Always communicate how you feel!



#4 Always Lying or Concealing The Truth:


Lies never help any relationship! It may seem as if they have helped you get out of a situation but you end up saying more lies to save your head.

Learn to stop lying to your partner; no matter how painful it seems, just say the truth. The truth will always be a better option!


#5 Not Being Committed:


Another mistake some people make is going into relationships just for the fun of it or to see how it goes; without a commitment plan or relationship goals.

The next time you enter into a relationship, make it a goal to remain committed no matter what. Don't plan to sit on the fence!

#6 Being Unfaithful:


A deadly mistake people make when they go into a relationship is being unfaithful to their partner.

Some people are unfaithful because of inability to trust or commit to one person. They hop or fly from one person to another to find whatever it is they are looking for.

Most times, they don't seem to find it because even when they find it, they don't realize that they have found what they want. Practice sticking to one partner for as long as you plan. It's totally worth it.



#7 Not Talking About S*x:


Some couples undermine the need to talk about s*x or their s*x lives because they assume s*x is a topic that shouldn't be talked about and must therefore be left alone.

If you never talk about your s*x life with your partner, your relationship is heading for the rocks.

You need to... No! You must talk about s*x if you want to have a long-lasting and committed relationship.


#8 Not Giving Your Partner Enough Attention:


Everyone loves attention! It's what keeps us going despite all the hurdles we meet in life. Give your partner adequate attention, care and love even when she doesn't deserve it.

Don't neglect your partner up to the extent that she seeks attention from another man. Get to know her, understand her and spend time with her!


#9 Being Unappreciative:


Another deadly mistake people keep making in relationships is being unappreciative or ungrateful.

They forget to say "thank you" to their spouse because they aassume that what ever they do is done out of duty or compulsion.

No matter what someone does for you, don't forget to say "Thank you" or "I'm grateful". It pays to be appreciative!


#10 Giving Your Partner Too Much Space:


I know there are people out there who don't like too much attention simply because they see it as a sign of clinginess. Your spouse could fall under this category.

Give him space but don't abandon him! Determine how much space he needs and give it adequately.

Don't be so dramatic and say "He needs some space, I'm gonna give him as much as he wants!" No! Be moderate in everything you do.


#11 Not Talking About Finances:


Finances or rather money has always being a major cause of marital breakups. This happens because most couples don't see themselves as one.

They see themselves as two individuals who must continue to live differently and independently so as to avoid conflict in marriage.

But sometimes, conflict arises because you don't talk about money with your spouse. Endeavour to discuss finance with your spouse.

If you must keep separate bank accounts, open a joint account for yourselves or the kids.


#12 Always Involving A 3rd Party:


This mistake is mostly made by women. Women are fond of involving 3rd parties into their relationship and marriage.

Every single thing that happens in their home is often discussed with a 3rd party who ends up given them wrong advice.

Avoid discussing every detail of your relationship with someone no matter how trustworthy he or she appears.

You don't know who secretly wants to destroy your home because she doesn't have a stable one as yours. Be wise as a fox and keep your relationship private!


#13 Talking Before Thinking:


Most people are guilty of this especially when they are angry or offended. They throw all caution to the wind and say whatever comes to their mind just to hurt the next person.

They know their spouse's buttons and yet push it to see how far they can go with it. Watch your words; they can heal wounds or incur injuries to the listener. Be mindful of what you say!

#14 Being Insecure or Overly Suspicious:


Insecurity usually grows out of jealousy, suspicion and lack of trust in a relationship.

When you feel insecure, jealous or suspicious, it only creates problems for you and your partner.

Trust in your partner even when it sounds foolish to do so. Don't look for errors where there are none.


These 14 deadly mistakes are the immediate causes of breakups. You may have heard of them before but if you haven't, I'm glad I was the first to tell you.

If you want to have a strong and stable relationship, you need to take note of these points and avoid them.

Are there any other deadly mistakes we need to avoid in our relationship?