Wednesday, May 31, 2017

How I Suffered And Survived Domestic Violence

My name is Alacia Hightower and I am a survivor of Child Abuse that led to Domestic Violence and S£xual Abuse as an adult.

At a very young age, I experienced child abuse at the hands of my father who was a Vietnam War Veteran. Not only did I experience the abuse, I also was a witness to the Domestic Violence that my mother experienced.

Saturday, May 27, 2017

How To Overcome S£x Addiction In 6 Simple Steps

Last week, I wrote on 12 Signs You Are Dating A S£x Addict. If you've not had the chance to read that post, please do so before reading this one.

In my previous post, I listed various signs that a s£x addict may portray. If you find out you or your partner is a s£x addict, what should you do about it?

Friday, May 19, 2017

12 Tell-tale Signs You Are Dating A S£x Addict

Today is Awareness day, no naughty post today guys. Let's get to know our $exual selves more.

Are you a $ex addict? Has the thought ever crossed your mind or has your partner ever mentioned it to you and you waved it off? 

Or maybe you are dating a s£x addict and you are not aware of it. Okay, maybe you are a little bit aware but you are not sure.

Tuesday, May 16, 2017

How To Get Out Of The Friend Zone In 8 Simple Steps



A few days ago I wrote a post on ''6 Undeniable Signs You Are In The Friend Zone" and I listed a few signs that could show you whether you are really in the friend zone or not. 

If you've confirmed that you are, I'm sorry if you feel hurt by that discovery but not to worry, I think I can help you get out of the mess. 

Monday, May 15, 2017

6 Undeniable Signs You Are In The Friend Zone


My long time friend has a best friend who happens to be a girl he is madly in love with but he can't tell her that he loves her because he is afraid of ruining the friendship they share.

So, he is just playing along and being the best friend she could ever have while dying in silence. Well, I know he is not the only one with this problem.

Sunday, May 14, 2017

Should You Maintain Contact With Your Ex?


On Valentine's Day, I received a call from my ex. He just wanted to check up on me and ask how I was enjoying my Val. 

A part of me knew he just wanted to find out if I was celebrating it alone or with someone special. 

Or maybe I just wanted him to think that. Maybe it would be consoling if I thought that he still cared about me. 

Friday, May 12, 2017

Q&A Friday: If You Could Be Stranded On An Island With One Person, Who Would It Be?

Just imagine you are traveling by ship to a faraway distance and all of a sudden the ship capsizes in the middle of nowhere. 

By sheer luck and divine intervention, you and one other person survive. 

When you look around you, the only helpful things you see are an emergency boat, a first aid box, bottles of water and some food. 

Saturday, May 06, 2017

8 Sure Ways To Keep A Long Distance Relationship Alive

Hi guys, if you've been following my blog for a while now, I want to use this medium to appreciate you for taking out time to read my posts. 

I know you're all busy with a lot of stuff but somehow you find the time to visit my blog. I really appreciate your efforts. 

Today, I would like to take a look at a recurring issue in relationships; long distance. 

In one of my old posts titled "My first Love", I wrote about my bitter sweet experience with my first boyfriend ever. 

While we were still together in school, our love was great and we seemed inseparable but the moment my boo graduated, things turned sour and we had to go our separate ways. 

Back then, I didn't think of any reason or cause for our break up; I just concluded that maybe we just drifted apart but now that I think of it, I blame our break up on long distance. 

Wednesday, May 03, 2017

How Long Should Dating/Courtship Last?

Last weekend, I was discussing with a group of friends over a bottle of red wine and the topic of the day was dating/courtship. 

Two people seated 
on another table were eavesdropping and before long they shifted closer to our table. Who doesn't like an interesting topic? 



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