Friday, May 19, 2017

12 Tell-tale Signs You Are Dating A S£x Addict

Today is Awareness day, no naughty post today guys. Let's get to know our $exual selves more.

Are you a $ex addict? Has the thought ever crossed your mind or has your partner ever mentioned it to you and you waved it off? 

Or maybe you are dating a s£x addict and you are not aware of it. Okay, maybe you are a little bit aware but you are not sure.

Most people never connect addiction to s€x! They don't know whether the s€x they are having is addictive or not. 

They just feel it is fun and should be had anytime, anywhere. People only see alcohol and drugs as addictives; $ex is never on their list.

A lot of us like s€x a lot and we are not shy to explore and experiment with different partners just to discover how much pleasure our bodies can handle or how fulfilling s£x can be.

People have s£x for various reasons ranging from curiosity to emotional connection to exploration then finally to $exual satisfaction.

But do we know when it's too much? Is there even a limit?

It may come as a shock to you that there are people out there who are actually addicted to s£x and they are not even aware of it. 

Let me put it this way "Yes, they know they have s€x a lot but they don't know they are addicted to it. Okay, some people are aware but they refuse to admit it.

S£x can be a drug too! Yep, Absolutely! S£x addiction is as powerf
ul as any narcotic although it isn't as common as alcoholism or drugs. 

But it is a very real problem that thousands of people are battling each day; even married people struggle with it.

Who is a S£x addict?

According to "S£xual addiction is best described as a progressive intimacy disorder characterized by compulsive s£xual thoughts and acts." 

A s£x addict is someone who indulges in excessive s£xual activity out of addiction. S£x addicts are everywhere; in the school, workplace, in church and even in our homes. 

They can't help but crave s£x every minute of the day. It's like a
n obsession. They almost go crazy if they don't get enough of it. 

S£x, to them, is like a hobby or a game.
Eventually, the pursuit of s£x becomes more important than family, career, and even personal health and safety.

10 Tell-tale Signs You Are Dating A S£x Addict: 

Most s£x addicts exhibit some obvious traits that are impossible to hide. Some of these traits are:

1. Watching Too Much P©rn:

Some people watch p•rn occasionally while others watch it almost
 everyday. It is normal for some couples to watch p•rn.

But when one partner seems obsessed with it that he hardly watches any other movies except p•rn, there is cause for worry.

Even when they make love to their partners, they still have the urge to watch p•rn and even masturbate.

The need to view p•rnography is usually a precursor to masturbation. If your partner watches way too much p•rn, he can be classified as an addict.

2. Excessive Masturbation:

A s£x addict usually has the compulsive need to masturbate every single day especially after viewing p•rn. 

The need becomes so overwhelming that the addict does not have the power to keep from masturbating. He does it out of obsession and proportion.

If your girlfriend masturbates more than 3 times a day and is still not $exually satisfied, she is definitely on the addict list.

3. They Are Never S£xually satisfied:

S£x addicts are usually hyperactive in bed. They have a very high s€x drive and no matter how much s€x they have everyday, it's never enough. They always yearn for more. 

It's like the more they have it, the more they want it. It's just never enough! 

Does your partner crave more and more s£x each time he has it? Does it seem like he never gets enough from you?

4. Having More Than One S€x Partner:

S£x addicts are never $exually satisfied and because of that, they tend to have multiple s€x partners. 

They feel having more s€x partners will keep them occupied and satisfied. But that's not always the case because they end up craving even more. 

Do you suspect your girlfriend has more than one s€x partner?

5. They Daydream About S€x A lot:

S£x addicts often daydream about having s€x with different people in different places. Does your partner think of s€x all the time? Okay, you won't have an answer to that.

Does he seem to be lost in a world of $exual fantasy? Does he seem easily distracted or carried away in the middle of something important?

6. Lack of Self-Control:

S£x addicts often lack self control even when they are in a committed relationship.

Because s£x is their number one priority, everything else is always totally messed up. 

When they at work, they spend the majority of their time trying to get their colleague into bed. 

Once they succeed, they try to get the coffee girl into bed too. Even a client could be a potential bedmate. It's an unending circle!

7. They Have S£x Everywhere:

S£x addicts often have no choice of location when it comes to s£x. Because of their uncontrollable s£x drive and lack of self control, they can have s£x anywhere and everywhere without caring about being caught. 

8. They Can't Stay Long Without S£x:

This is definitely one of my best points. Like I earlier said at the beginning of this post " S£x addicts indulge in excessive $exual activity.

They can't help but crave s£x every minute of the day. It's like an obsession. They almost go crazy if they don't get enough of it. Surely, they can't stay long without s£x: abstinence is like punishment to them.

9. They Are Often Unfocused, Confused & Unstable:

Due to the amount of time spent daydreaming and having s£x, they are rarely focused on the things that matter the most. 

S£x becomes their number one priority and everything else including friends, family & career usually goes to the bottom of their list. 

Has your partner become unfocused, confused or unstable lately? Has he been repeatedly late to events or forgetful about important dates?

10. They Have S£x With Total Strangers:

A s£x addict usually has no problem with making out with total strangers in a dark alley or a public toilet. In fact, it is a habit they can't stop. 

One minute, they are seen drinking solo in a bar, the next minute, they are either going home with a total stranger or banging her in a dark corner. It's really pathetic!

11. Having Bouts Of S£xually Transmitted Infection:

Most s£x addicts tend to have unprotected s£x out of habit. When the urge comes, they get so carried away that protection never crosses their mind.

At that point, all they seek is relief from the undying itch they feel. As a result of this careless behaviour, they unknowingly pick up infections or even diseases from total strangers. 

12. Frequent Mood Swings And Depression:

Some addicts who are aware of their situation usually try to stop but it seems so difficult. 

Each time they find themselves in that pit of obsession, they feel powerless and hopeless. It feels like an overpowering spirit falls upon them.

When they realize what they've done, they feel guilty, ashamed and depressed. They really don't want to hurt their loved ones but somehow they can't help themselves. 

All these are signs that a s£x addict often exhibits unknowingly. If you notice your partner portraying at least 6 or 7 of these symptoms, chances are that he is definitely a s£x addict.

S£x addiction is a sickness! Whether you admit it or not, it is. If you are dating someone who is possibly addicted to s£x, ad
vice him to seek treatment before it is too late. 

Don't let s£x addiction destroy your friendships, your career, your marriage and even your life. Visit a therapist and get help TODAY!

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