Friday, July 14, 2017

Naughty Friday: 9 Mistakes Women Make During S£x

Last week, I wrote about The Obvious Mistakes Men Make During S£x and I know that the guys won’t be happy because they feel cheated. 

I’m sure they were asking “Is it only the men that make mistakes in bed? 
How about the women? Are they exempted?” 

Of course not! That’s why I’ve decide to talk about the mistakes women make during s£x. 

Okay ladies, it's your turn. Pay attention!

When it comes to a couple's s£x life, there are many things that will cause it to flow and cease. Sometimes, it is exciting and other times boring. 

It’s not entirely your fault! I know work, tight schedules, household chores and probably kids take so much of your time and energy.

You’re often so tired that intimate moments together with your lover becomes a lot of work too. 

So, when he bothers you enough for it, you will just reluctantly open your legs and let him in without really being involved.

There’s a lot more attached to s£x than just opening your legs to satisfy your partner’s needs. 

S£x is an art that involves tenderness, passion, desire, patience and love. You need to be involved to experience how beautiful and amazing it is!

Here are a few mistakes to avoid while getting intimate with your partner:

1. Turning From S£xy Lady For Boss Lady:

We know you’re busy and you’re working hard to earn a living but please, don’t forget the dude. Don’t treat him as if he is insignificant or as if he’s a thorn in your flesh.  

While the rigors of everyday life can impact your s£xual desires, it most likely doesn’t extinguish it.

You need to nurture your s£x life. Pay enough attention to your partner. Drop little love notes for him to discover during the day. 

Wear something s£xy lingerie under your work clothes and surprise him when he gets home. Do something that reminds him of the s£xual goddess that you are.

2. Being Unresponsiveness:

A lot of women do this especially when they are too tired to play intimate with their partner. 

When he asks for it, they just lie down and let him do his thing without even getting involved. S£x with a corpse is not an exciting experience.

Don’t just lie there and tell him to do ‘his thing’. Get involved. Move. Make some noise. Be responsive. 

If s£x isn’t pleasurable for you, find out what’s missing? Try different positions, or get a better perfume that turns you on.

3. Not speaking up about your needs:

Similar to men, women also fall victim to the idea that your partner will know or sense what’s going on with you. If something is going on you don’t like, speak up. 

If you are not comfortable with the position, tell your partner.
Don’t say “He’s the one who needs it. Let him hurry up with it.” 

If you would like more foreplay or lube, say it. When you’re honest and communicate your needs, you get the chance to experience even more excitement during s£x together.

4. Not Taking Care of Your Body:

What most men find as a lasting turn on more than anything is the way a woman carries herself. Her confidence and charisma is what attracts him to her. Don’t ever lose it.  

If you are always down on your body, you can do something about it by working out if you want. But, one thing you can do for is learn to embrace the skin you’re in and feel confident to flaunt it.

Wear s£xy lingerie. Walk around naked. Have s£x with the lights on. Stop feeling insecure because of your chubby body; if you don’t like it, do something about it.

Get some perfumes, shave regularly, exercise often, watch what you eat, and keep yourself together. When you own your own body, you can flaunt yourself for him because you know you are beautiful and s£xy.

5. Being Insecure about Other Women:

Similar to not owning your own body, being constantly threatened by other women is not attractive. Remember your partner chose you, so focus your energies on keeping his eyes on you. 

Stop searching through his inbox looking for messages his other girlfriends send him. Stop going through his call log to see who called him more than once during the day.

Just stop already! You’re simply being paranoid. Save yourself the energy; it’s not worth it at all. Learn to seduce him, tease him, and tempt him so he won’t have to look elsewhere!

6. Hiding Your Erotic Nature:

Many women fear if they are erotic, they’ll come across as slutty or cheap to their partner. That may be just what he wants at times! Have the courage to let go once in a while. 

Be erotic. Stimulate him visually and verbally. Make him notice you. Get on top during s£x. Don’t be scared to make the first move and take charge. 

Be “a lady in the street but a freak in the bed.” A common thought is that men are led by two brains. Don’t forget about his northern brain. Stimulate him!

7. Not going down South:

Aha! Here comes one of the issues that most men complain about; their partner’s refusal to give them oral. Ladies, this is a big issue for the guys; you need to look into critically. 

Your s£x life is going to be boring and unsatisfying without it. If you don’t like the idea of giving him oral and he wants you to, talk to him about it?

Tell him why you don’t want to do it and if there is anything you need to change him before you start doing it, tell him. Let him understand your point of view. Speak up. 

If you need a practical guide on giving oral, check out my post on ‘The 10 Commandments of Giving a Blow Job'.

8. Not Making the First Move:

Another complaint I hear from men is the issue of their woman not initiating s£xual encounters. They are the ones who always have to make the first move even when the woman needs it too. 

Perhaps, this is due to the fact that some women are too shy to open up to their partner or they are afraid of coming across as slutty.

Your relationship as well as s£x need to be mutual. When you’re interested in s£x, let it be known. Don’t leave it up to him to figure it out as if he’s the only one who has needs. Try to make the first move sometimes.

9. Being Too Hasty:

I know you think men are the only ones who are usually hasty during s£x but they aren’t. Some women are so hasty that they even urge their partners to skip foreplay and go straight to the main business. 

They don’t want to invest too much time during the act; the earlier it ends the better for them.

When it comes to s£x, remember it’s an art; slow down, take your time with each other and enjoy the moments together. 

Don’t claim to be so busy that you don’t have time for passionate s£x; make time for it and stop making excuses. Don’t rush. Slow down, relax and savour the blissful moment!

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