Many people have diverse beliefs about things and one of them is family
planning. Some people believe that it is advisable to have many children.
also believe that when they give birth to many children in their youth, they
won’t feel lonely in their old age.
assume that having many children makes them wealthy in a sort of way. They may
console themselves by thinking ”after all some couples are looking for the
fruit of the womb”.
They could even go further to quote the bible by saying
“Go forth, multiply and fill the earth”. Yeah, it is true!
people who don’t believe in family planning or birth control. They simply have
a strong belief in procreation.
everyone has the same belief about family planning. There are couples who
strongly believe in family planning and birth control.
They believe that having
fewer children makes it easier for them to train them properly. They try to
avoid situations whereby there are children everywhere in the house without
enough money to cater for them.
horrible situations whereby a couple keeps procreating when they have very
little income to take care of them.
The children are forced to go hungry almost
every day, they are improperly clothed and they are most times barely educated.
My distant relative was still breastfeeding her little baby when she
took in for her second child.
Many people were angry about
her lack of family planning but it didn’t prevent her from taking in
again while she was still breastfeeding her second baby.
I was only
worried about the condition of her womb and the welfare of her kids.
I kept asking myself why some couples can’t practice family planning even when
they know they are not exactly financially stable.
Someone once told me that
“poor couples have s*x often to comfort themselves” and sometimes
they don’t even bother wasting the little money they have on birth control.
they end up procreating nonstop! It is not best for the children who are born
under such terrible living conditions.
Every child deserves the best!
Family planning has a lot of benefits but I’ll mention only a few:
planning brings about proper spacing:
plan your family properly, you won’t end up with children who are barely one
year older than each other.
A minimum of 2 years should be allowed before
having another child. When you’re ready to have your next child, make sure you
already have funds saved up for that child.
planning makes it easier for you to take care of your children:
your children actually makes it easier for you to look after them properly.
When you have one infant or toddler at a time, it is easier to manage your home.
But when there are many infants everywhere, you may become overly stressed.
Just make sure that the child you have at hand is able to walk and talk before
having another one.
I’ve seen cases where a mother will strap a toddler behind
her back while carrying an infant in her hand! It is very tasking for the mother.
planning helps you provide better for your children:
there are fewer children to feed and clothe, a couple can easily provide for
But when you have to buy baby food and diapers for two children at a time
when they aren’t even twins, it is usually very frustrating and money
planning helps you know and understand your children:
fewer kids enables you to easily interact with them one-on-one thereby giving
you access to every part of their lives.
When you know your children very well,
it would be really easy noticing when things aren’t right with them.
the kids are so many, the parents may not have enough time for all of them and
this could lead to some problems in the future.
planning helps in creating a brighter future for your kids:
you agree to this or not, when you have fewer children, you would want to give
them the best in life and you would struggle to achieve that at all costs.
when the kids are many that you can’t even remember their names, only a few may
get the best in life.
The other kids who are left behind are either handed over
to the elder ones or a relative to cater for them.
Some may not even get such
opportunities at all; they could end up on the streets begging.
planning promotes a tidy and noise free home:
fewer children, comes less noise and clutter around the house. You can breathe
fresher air and watch TV without much distraction.
Even family outings or
vacations are well planned and managed when there are fewer children to take
But when there are babies everywhere, you may not have time for
yourself or your spouse; all you will think about is kids, kids, and kids and
your home will usually be untidy and noisy.
to a happy and well-organized home is proper family planning.
I’m not saying
that you shouldn’t have as many babies as you want, but the most important
thing is first making sure you have enough funds to cater for a large house.
Secondly, endeavour to give adequate spacing amongst the children. This enables
your children to have a brighter future!