Period sex!!! Aye or nay? I know a lot of you will say capital “NO” to having period sex because you have assumed and imagined how messy and gross it’s going to be. Well, It isn’t as gross or harmful as you think. Seriously!!!
Some men even feel they would get seriously sick if they have sex with a lady during her period. I wonder where they heard that one from.
Just because your woman is having her period doesn’t mean you have to forego sex. If you love her, it won’t be a big deal to you.
For some women, sexual activity during menstruation can be even more pleasurable than any other time of the month.
This is due to the fact that women are usually hornier around their periods. Sounds crazy right? Shhh!!! I just leaked a big secret.
A study published in 2013 in Cephalalgia concluded that sexual activity may reduce migraine and cluster headache pain and cramps in women.
So, you would be doing us a huge favour by agreeing to tangle during our periods. It’s just blood, unharmful blood; there is nothing infectious about it. Nothing bad will happen if it gets on a guy’s dick.
If you decide to try it out, you will find these tips helpful:
1. Talk about it with your partner:
Before you even think of jumping on your partner during her period, talk to her first. Find out if she feels okay with it. It’s really important to have a discussion in advance; you don’t want to take her by surprise.
Just make sure you’re both comfortable with the idea and know what to expect. Avoid acting squeamish or irritated; it will totally make her feel like you’re turned off by her!
2. There is no need for lubrication:
The need for lubrication lessens during a woman’s period; in fact, it is not needed at all. Lol, the blood is enough lubrication for as many rounds as you wish to go. But if you wish, you could have some lube standby just in case you need one.
3. Do it in the shower:
If you feel you can’t stand the sight of a tiny droplet of blood, just do it in the shower instead of the bed.
Having sex in the shower instead of your bed is a great way to minimise the mess. You won’t even notice she’s on her period while you’re doing it in the shower.
Plus you’ll have so much fun experimenting with new positions! If you want to do it on your bed, endeavour to cover it with a blanket or something to avoid staining your sheets.
4. Stick to one or two positions:
If you and your partner feel super adventurous, try switching up positions as much as you can hold. Some periods could be quite uncomfortable so if your partner isn’t feeling herself, just stick to simple positions like missionary or spooning.
5. Take necessary precautions:
If you are really worried about getting infected, wear a condom to minimise your chances of contracting any infections.
It’s also possible for a woman to get pregnant even during menstruation, so if you want to prevent an unwanted pregnancy, you’ll definitely want to use protection.
Sex during menstruation is as safe as ever. Having sex during a woman’s period is not harmful in any way.
If you are going to contract anything from her, you can easily get it from her vaginal fluids. If you aren’t convinced, take out some time and google it or ask your doctor.
Would you agree to have sex with your girlfriend during her menses if she wants it?