We love our beds. They are really cozy. Soft, comfortable, familiar and homey with pillow cases and satin beddings. Cozy, cozy, cozy.
Let’s think outside the bed. Oops! Sorry, I meant outside the box.
I’m talking sex in a tent, in a car, in the kitchen, in the shower, on the beach, on the balcony, on the coffee table, on a desk. And whatever location you desire. You name it!
I’m just being naughty. But the truth is in sex as in real estate, location matters. That’s why I’m going to give you 6 HOT reasons why you should have sex outside the bedroom.
1. You Will Discover Your Naughty Side:
Having sex outside the bed instantly reminds us that we are part of nature. It brings out your primitive and wild side.
The feeling of dirt or sand or grass on bare skin is so earthy, primitive and damn hot. Just imagine having a quickie in a parking lot or on the beach. Thrilling right?
2. You Will Relive Your Reckless Teen Years (Even if you weren’t so reckless):
Having sex outside the bed shows us we’re able to get back to our innocence and playful qualities. When you change locations, it takes you back to a time of electric first touches, skyrocketing hormones, fireworks and mind blowing orgasms.
It just reminds you of when you were young and carefree. All those electric moments. Gosh!
3. Your Sex Life Needs Great Stories:
Having sex outside the bed gives you a lot of warm memories and sex stories to tell each other or someone else. Let’s admit it; sex in the bedroom could get boring sometimes. We all need great sex stories to talk about from time to time.
4. You Can Discover A lot From the Danger of Being Discovered:
Have you ever had sex in an open space or a public space and you were scared of being caught?
Did you feel all that adrenaline rushing through your body? Oh, yeah! That’s because you were scared of being discovered. But it was damn exciting too right?
There’s a reason some of us have had sex on the beach, in campgrounds and in cars. The risk of being caught makes your skin tingle and your nerves prickle. It tells you new things about who you are.
5. It Spices Up Your Sex Life:
Having sex on the bed could seem so boring sometimes. So, once in a while, we all need to escape the tranquillizing effect the bed adds to our sex lives.
We need to try funky things outside the bed to prove to ourselves and our spouse that we are still sexy vixens.
Don’t be shy to do it on the kitchen table, the dining table, the sofa, in the car, in the shower, on an aeroplane or anywhere you choose. It adds spice to your sex life. Trust me on this one.
6. A new Location equals a New Level of Communication:
Making out in a new place can rekindle old feelings of desire and passion. It lets you recapture some of the excitement of the unknown parts of every relationship.
It sort of opens doors to new communication levels. When you try out new locations, it is likely that you and your partner will talk about how it all went down and whether you would try it out sometime or not.
Have you ever had hot steaming sex outside the bedroom?