A few days ago I wrote a post on ”6 Undeniable Signs You Are In The Friend Zone” and I listed a few signs that could show you whether you are really in the friend zone or not.
But before I continue, I want to throw a few questions around; what did you do when you realised that you were in the friend zone?
Yeah, that’s everyone’s dream, right? If that’s what you want then follow these steps:
1. Tell her exactly how you feel:
You have to choose the right place and time before conveying your message to her. Watch her facial expression when you break this news to her.
If she seems angry or indifferent then I’ll suggest you let her absorb the information for a few days before bringing up the topic again.
If she seems cool or happy with your news, then the next step is to ask her out and plan a date.
Take her out to a cool place where you could chill out and just talk. It must not be the fanciest restaurant or the latest bar in the town. Just plan something nice within your budget.
Don’t pretend to be who you’re not just to impress her. Just remember to take things gently; one thing at a time. Allow the love to grow from within.
Don’t try to use her words against her or force words into her mouth either. Just let it be. She trusts you already. If she really wants to talk about it, I’m sure she would bring it up herself.
In fact, this is the best time to get to know each other better and to enjoy the friendship you both share. Do all the fun stuff you both love.
Hell no! I suggest you start by touching or holding her and then kissing her. Take things gently but don’t be a snail about it either.
I guess I could say congratulations in advance now because I know you would put all these tips into practice.