8 Styles of Lovemaking Every Couple Should Definitely Try

8 Styles of lovemaking every couple should try

Last night, while pillow talking with my boyfriend after a hot and steamy lovemaking session, we started analyzing the evolution of our love life.

Back when we were in school, we had more spontaneous and adventurous lovemaking episodes; they were experimental, emotional, crazy and passionate. It was fun and exciting all the way!

Years later, we’ve graduated and we are both working. Intercourse is no longer like it used to be. With work and all, getting intimate is now an event on the calendar that has to be scheduled.

It is no longer spontaneous like it used to be. Sometimes, we try to spice it up and relive the good old romantic life we had in school.

That was why we bought the kinky little black book of lovemaking positions to help us improve our love life. It was a total game changer!

I know there are a lot of single and married couples who are going through the same phase. You go to work every morning and get home in the evening, hungry, tired and stressed out. You take a cold shower, eat dinner and curl up in front of the TV or laptop.

An hour later, you jump into bed hoping to have a hot steamy lovemaking session but your partner is either too tired for that or is fast asleep.

The only time you manage to have good intercourse is on less busy weekends which occur once or twice a month.

Gradually, your love life becomes boring and predictable; it lacks spontaneity and excitement. Then you start wondering how the hell you got here! It’s not just you, we’ve all been there!

If you’ve lost track of the types of intercourse you need to be having, I’ve made an awesome list for you. I’m going to share with you 8 styles of lovemaking that every couple needs to try to help build their relationship.

8 STYLES OF LOVEMAKING EVERY COUPLE SHOULD DEFINITELY TRY

8 styles of lovemaking for couples


#1 Drive Through a.k.a Maintenance style

8 Styles of Lovemaking for Couples

 

This is the kind of intercourse you have when you are tired after a long hectic day. The “Honey, I’m too tired but you can go ahead and do your thing” kind of intercourse.

This occurs mostly on weekdays when the couple is exhausted but still wants to make love. You have it just to maintain the bond you have with your partner. Eye contact and consciousness are optimal.

#2 Golden Coral a.k.a Okay style

8 Styles of Lovemaking

This is no-frills lovemaking that usually involves one or two positions with small foreplay, eye contact, kissing and nothing much. Expectations are low for both of you; you don’t expect your lover to surprise you. Orgasms are optimal but pleasantly received. Pillow talk afterward is unnecessary.

#3 Pizza a.k.a Good style

8 Styles of Lovemaking

It usually involves light to medium foreplay; kissing and some oral that doesn’t necessarily lead to orgasms. Two to four lovemaking positions may be experimented during the act.

Moderate pillow talk occurs afterward. This is a typical Friday night makeout session that says “Let’s have fun, tomorrow is Saturday.”

#4 Chinese a.k.a Great style

8 Styles of Lovemaking

Don’t know why this is called Chinese but it involves medium foreplay, deep kisses and oral play which leads to orgasm.

Intercourse usually follows in three to five positions. Moderate pillow talk occurs afterward and another round of lovemaking ( It’s Chinese… You will get horny again an hour later) Don’t be surprised! Just flow with it! Think connection, release, love, and commitment.

#5 Italian a.k.a Awesome style

Styles of lovemaking

Hmmm… Saturday night lovemaking after a romantic date that involves a few drinks, maybe a dance, public displays of affection (hand holding, heavy kissing and intimate touching in a dark alley) and eventually making out in the car.

When you get home a bit tipsy, tearing your clothes off, intercourse is on the menu in at least 4 positions. Maybe even round 2 or 3 using household toys while romantic blues play in the background. Just imagine hot, steamy and slutty lovemaking. The type that keeps you in bed till 10 am the next day.

#6 Continental a.k.a Kinky style

8 Styles of Lovemaking for Couples

The kinky style involves a lot of noise and energy. This isn’t the kind of intercourse you have on a weekday because it leaves you shivering and completely wasted. It is ” You do me, then I do you, then we do each other together while waking the neighbors” type of lovemaking.

You would need loud music or soundproof walls to mask your loud moans and groans. This is the kind of kinky event where you experiment with costumes, role plays, household toys, apparatuses e.t.c. Just think “Fifty Shades of Grey” intercourse.

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#7 Four Star Hotel a.k.a Curl Your Toes style

Styles of lovemaking

Not all couples will be willing to try out number 6 and 7. This is a classy lovemaking that happens outside the house but not in the car or a dark alley.

It happens in a nice hotel room and it’s totally worth it. Hotel intercourse is like fine art; it is sensational, elegant, expensive and sometimes planned. 2 or 3 nights of four-star hotel intercourse can go a long way in keeping your relationship fresh.

#8 Spontaneous a.k.a Quickie style

Styles of lovemaking

It is the “grab each other and go at it” kind of lovemaking. It is a freestyle act that could happen anytime, anywhere; the couch, the kitchen table, the basement floor, the bathroom and any other unusual place you find yourself in the heat of the moment.

Throughout your life, you’re probably going to have a lot of different styles of lovemaking. There will be hot, spicy lovemaking, a few regrettable positions, experiments that don’t turn out as planned, and all of the good, bad, and ugly in between.

It’s beneficial to have these styles of lovemaking once in a while; it helps build your relationship and it keeps you close together for a very long time.


Which style of lovemaking do you like best?

 

Recommended reading:

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