be happy because they felt cheated. I’m sure they were asking “Is it only the men that make mistakes in bed? How about the women? Are they exempted?”
Sometimes, it is exciting and other times boring.
tired that intimate moments together with your lover becomes a lot of work too.
and let him in without really being involved. There’s a lot more attached to sex than
just opening your legs to satisfy your partner’s needs.
Sex is an art that
involves tenderness, passion, desire, patience and love. You need to be
involved to experience how beautiful and amazing it is!
1. Turning From Sexy
Lady For Boss Lady:
We know you’re busy and you’re working hard to earn a living but please, don’t forget the dude. Don’t treat him as if he is insignificant or as if he’s a thorn in your flesh. While the rigors of everyday life can impact your sexual desires, it most likely doesn’t extinguish it.
You need to nurture your sex life. Pay enough attention to your partner. Drop little love notes for him to discover during the day. Wear something sexy lingerie under your work clothes and surprise him when he gets home. Do something that reminds him of the sexual goddess that you are.
2. Being Unresponsiveness:
A lot of women do
this especially when they are too tired to play intimate with their partner. When
he asks for it, they just lie down and let him do his thing without even
getting involved. Sex with a corpse is not an exciting experience.
there and tell him to do ‘his thing’. Get involved. Move. Make some noise. Be
responsive. If sex isn’t pleasurable for you, find out what’s missing? Try
different positions, or get a better perfume that turns you on.
3. Not speaking up about your needs:
Similar to men,
women also fall victim to the idea that your partner will know or sense what’s
going on with you. If something is going on you don’t like, speak up. If you
are not comfortable with the position, tell your partner. Don’t say “He’s the
one who needs it. Let him hurry up with it.”
lube, say it. When you’re honest and communicate your needs, you get the chance
to experience even more excitement during sex together.
4. Not Taking Care of Your Body:
What most men find
as a lasting turn on more than anything is the way a woman carries herself. Her
confidence and charisma is what attracts him to her. Don’t ever lose it.
do something about it by working out if you want. But, one thing you can do for is learn to embrace the skin you’re in and feel confident to flaunt it.
Walk around naked. Have sex with the lights on. Stop feeling insecure because
of your chubby body; if you don’t like it, do something about it.
eat, and keep yourself together. When you own your own
body, you can flaunt yourself for him because you know you are beautiful and
5. Being Insecure about Other Women:
Similar to not
owning your own body, being constantly threatened by other women is not attractive.
Remember your partner chose you, so focus your energies on keeping his eyes on
girlfriends send him. Stop going through his call logs to see who called him
more than once during the day.
simply being paranoid. Save yourself the energy; it’s not worth it at all. Learn
to seduce him, tease him, and tempt him so he won’t have to look elsewhere!
6. Hiding Your Erotic Nature:
Many women fear if
they are erotic, they’ll come across as slutty or cheap to their partner. That
may be just what he wants at times! Have the courage to let go once in a while.
during sex. Don’t be scared to make the first move and take charge.Be “a lady
in the street but a freak in the bed.” A common thought is that men are led by
two brains. Don’t forget about his northern brain. Stimulate him!
7. Not going down South:
Aha! Here comes one of the issues that
most men complain about; their partner’s refusal to give them oral. Ladies,
this is a big issue for the guys; you need to look into critically. Your sex
life is going to be boring and unsatisfying without it. If you don’t like the
idea of giving him oral and he wants you to, talk to him about it?
don’t want to do it and if there is anything you need to change him before you
start doing it, tell him. Let him understand your point of view. Speak up. If you need a practical guide on giving oral, check out my post on ‘The 10 Commandments of Giving a Blow Job‘.
8. Not Making the First Move:
Another complaint I often hear from men is the issue of
their woman not initiating sexual encounters. They are the ones who always have to make the
first move even when the woman needs it too.
that some women are too shy to open up to their partner or they are afraid of
coming across as slutty.
well as sex need to be mutual. When you’re interested in sex, let it be known. Don’t
leave it up to him to figure it out as if he’s the only one who has needs. Try to
make the first move sometimes.
9. Being Too Hasty:
during sex but they aren’t. Some women are so hasty that they even urge their
partners to skip foreplay and go straight to the main business.They don’t want
to invest too much time during the act; the earlier it ends the better for
them. When it comes to sex, remember it’s an art; slow down, take your
time with each other and enjoy the moments together.
that you don’t have time for passionate sex; make time for it and stop making
excuses. Don’t rush. Slow down, relax and savour the blissful moment!