Some girls feel that they always have to be at the receiving end in a relationship no matter what. Whether the relationship is based on money, love or whatever, they always expect to receive something. They only prefer to take from their men but they never give back even once.
I’ve met women who strongly object to showing care for their men in any way. They adamantly refuse to spend money on their men even in the form of gifts but they expect the men to lavish them with love, attention and money.
Sounds selfish right?
Well, I’m not against their views. They have every right to think and behave the way they want. But all I’m saying is that “Every man deserves his woman’s love and attention. They try to give everything to make us happy but how many of us remember to give back once in a while?
Who said guys are the only ones who should care for their partners? What’s wrong with a Lady showing her man how deeply she cares for him? If you’ve been thinking of pouring your emotions out into a glass to make a “love shake” for your man to drink just to show him the depth of your love, then you must read this.
10 INCREDIBLE WAYS TO MAKE YOUR MAN FEEL LOVED AND SPECIAL
1. SAY THE 3 MAGIC WORDS OFTEN:
Some women feel men are the only ones who should express their feelings for them. They expect their man to tell them every day how much he loves them and how high he could climb just to make them happy. If you want your man to feel loved, you have to express your feelings too.
Tell him how you feel about him; whisper those soft warm magical words “I LOVE YOU” into his ears and watch the indescribable expression on his face. He is definitely going to feel loved, special and even confident if you use the magic words often.
2. FLIRT WITH HIM IN PUBLIC:
Shy or reserved people always avoid public displays of affection. If your partner likes the idea of flirting openly, I think you need to indulge in it once in a while. You know the kind of flirting I’m suggesting doesn’t mean having sex on a stage. LOL! If you want to try out flirting in public, try holding his hand or wrapping your hand around his waist when you go out together. It’s sure going to make him feel special!
3. SPEND QUALITY TIME WITH HIM:
Create time for your man; give him some of your attention. It’s absurd to give him all of your attention but giving him a part of it isn’t going to crash your business! As you go about your daily business, don’t forget to check in on him daily.
A little “Hi love” message will make his day and please stop making excuses for refusing to go out during the weekends. We all get tired and stressed up but somehow, we need to find time to release stress and have fun. Put a smile on your man’s face by either taking him to the cinema or somewhere fun. Surprise him!
4. LAVISH HIM WITH COMPLIMENTS:
Although women literally thrive on compliments men enjoy them too. If you haven’t been showering your man with compliments, you need to seriously invest in that. Tell him how sexy he is. Tell him how handsome he is. Remind him of why you fell in love with him; tell him how happy he makes you feel and how lucky you are to have such a wonderful man in your life. You are going to see awesome results after you try this!
5. ACT JEALOUS ONCE IN A WHILE:
Even though you are not the type of lady who gets jealous of her man, just pretend to be jealous once in a while. Use comments like ” You look so handsome today, I hope one girl won’t snatch you away from me?” That’s just an example. You can throw any jealous tantrums just to make him feel special and wanted.
6. CALL/TEXT HIM SPONTANEOUSLY:
Some ladies never call their spouses unless there is an emergency or they need a favour. That is so wrong! Call him without a reason; just call or text him to ask about work or his day. Even if you leave in the same house, call him when he is at the office or somewhere else.
Don’t just wait for him to come back to pour all your requests on him. Call him or text him during the day just to check up on him. Send him a random text in the middle of the day just to say “I LOVE YOU” or “I MISS YOU”. It would certainly make his day.
7. MAKE SWEET LOVE TO HIM:
I didn’t say “Have Sex” with him. I specifically chose “Make Love To Him” because it is a deep activity that involves emotions. It is more than just lying down and receiving; you have to give back too!
You have to be physically and emotionally involved; it’s not about how many rounds you can go or about how many positions you can change. It’s about connecting with your partner and showing him how much love you have in your heart for him.
8. DO SOMETHING SPECIAL FOR HIM:
Whether it’s your man’s birthday or not, do something special for him. It doesn’t have to be a big thing; anything small and thoughtful could mean a lot to him. Buy him something special without a reason!
Surprise him one day by preparing his favourite meal, or taking him to dinner, or buying tickets to a movie or renting his favourite movie. Do something nice you don’t do regularly. Be romantic! His response is going to be mind-blowing!
9. SHOW GRATITUDE:
Most girls feel it is a man’s duty to take care of a lady. So they never appreciate anything a man does for them because they feel they are entitled to it. If a man goes out of his way to make you happy either by buying you things or showing you care, show gratitude.
Remember to thank him for his efforts before you start thinking of the next request he needs to attend to. Saying “Thank You” is an incredible way to make your man feel loved.
10. BE INTERESTED IN HIS WORK/CAREER:
From time to time, show genuine interest in his work. I’m not asking you to poke nose in his business but be interested in what he is investing his time, money and energy in. Support him in any way you can; financially, emotionally, spiritually etc. If he has issues at work and wants to discuss it with you, listen to him and offer solutions to the problem.
A lot of people don’t understand what real romance is all about you. Romance involves much more than just buying flowers, jewellery and perfume.
There are many other incredible ways to make your man feel loved. I can’t list them all here but you know your man. You know what he likes and what he dislikes. If you know his love language, use it. Try to do more of what he likes and avoid what he doesn’t like. The truly romantic things are those little thoughtful things we do to show how much we care.