Are you dating the right guy? How do you even know if a guy is right or wrong for you? Forget about your checklist! It doesn’t always work out the way you want! Often times, your dream guy turns out to be bad for you while your “not-my-type” guy may end up being your perfect match.
If you’ve been dating a guy for like 3 months or 2 years and you’re suddenly wondering if he is the one, then reading this post is the best decision you’ve made today.
How do you know you’re not just wasting your time with a guy when your Prince Charming is lurking somewhere else? How do you know the guy you’re currently dating is the one you should stick with?
Here are 10 signs you are dating the right guy; just grab a notepad and tick everything that applies to you.
10 SIGNS YOU ARE DATING THE RIGHT GUY
No.1 Your Communication Is Great
You don’t have a problem talking with your guy and he doesn’t hesitate to share his opinions with you. Communication comes naturally to both of you. You can literally talk about anything and you don’t ever run out of things to discuss. Congratulations! You are probably dating the right guy!
No.2 You Feel Entirely Safe With Him
Do you ever get that feeling of being safe when you’re with him? That feeling that tells you everything is going to be okay simply because you’re around him. You’re not scared of anything or anyone when he is around. All you know is that he is here and you’re secure. He is like your ultimate personal bodyguard! How cool is that?
No.3 You Trust Each Other Completely
Trust is one of the most essential ingredients for a successful relationship. Do you and your guy trust each other so much that you know what he can do and what he isn’t capable of doing? Does he trust you enough to tell you his deepest secrets without the fear of losing you? Then you both have trust and that’s like having a gold mine. Cherish it!
No.4 He Supports You In Every Way
Your man is the right guy for you if he supports you in everything that you do which includes your job, business and every other thing that you invest your time in. He is so committed that he wants to know what is happening around you and how he can be of help.
Your boyfriend listens to your struggles and proffers solutions because he is genuinely interested in you. He supports you financially, mentally and emotionally. He is always there for you through ups and downs. To crown it all, he is your biggest fan.
No.5 You Are Attracted To Each Other
Do you find yourself falling in love with him each time he smiles at you and want to kiss him for no reason at all? Do you love staring at his naked body all day long? Does he constantly stare at you like he can’t get enough of you? I call that “Attraction” and it is definitely a good sign. It is the foundation of a healthy sexual relationship.
No.6 You Have Mutual Respect
A relationship cannot be complete if there is no respect for one another. You need to respect each other’s opinions, decisions and private life. You’re with the right guy if he respects your opinions and doesn’t try to enforce his decisions on you. He respects you enough to let you decide for yourself!
No.7 The Sex Is Awesome
Hmmm… When you’re with the right guy, getting under the sheets shouldn’t seem like a full-time job. On the contrary, it’s hot, passionate and steamy… Well, not all the time but most of the time. If you have sex at least thrice a week and you reach your orgasm at least twice, I think your relationship is good to go. That’s just me saying!
No.8 You Are Crazily In Love With Each Other
Ahh, LOVE! The emotion that brings warmth to the soul and consumes your entire being. If you can’t imagine yourself living without your partner, I guess you’re totally obsessed with him. He is your sun, your moon, your stars, and you’re entire world. Without him, life would be miserable and meaningless. If he is right for you, he would feel the same way about you!
No.9 You Are Best Friends Forever
When you’re asked who your best friend is, he is the first person that comes to mind. He makes you laugh really hard; he is so much fun to be around. You’ve shared a lot together and experienced a dozen of life-shaping events that he has upgraded from friend to best friend.
There is nothing sweeter than two best friends who become lovers. Friendship is an important key to building a lasting relationship. If your boyfriend is also your best friend, I absolutely think you’re dating the right guy. Don’t let him go!
No.10 Your Instincts Tell You He’s “The One”
Your instincts tell you he is definitely the right person for you. Of course, you knew this already; you only needed a confirmation. So, if your instincts say he is the one, then he is The One. Don’t doubt it! Follow your instincts.
Are you dating the right guy? If yes, how do you know? Let me know in the comments box below!