If you’ve been in a relationship for a while and you are looking for ways to rejuvenate your relationship and spice things up a bit with your partner, I’ve published this post just for you. No one enjoys a boring relationship; we all want a relationship that is full of passion, romance and love.
Every relationship needs a boost from time to time but not everyone knows just how to do this so that both partners are happy again. Some relationships fall apart because the couple involved believe that there is no way to rejuvenate their relationship. They think it’s dead and should be buried. That’s just wrongful thinking…
There are lots of ways to bring back the spark into your relationship. Here are a few ways you can do just that:
12 Creative Ways to Rejuvenate Your Relationship
#1 Try Something Different:
I know it sounds a little too simple, but trying something different in your relationship is the best way to rejuvenate your relationship and overcome a ‘boring’ time. Try a new activity or go on a vacation together. Do something you’ve never done before but wish you could do. Discuss with your partner and find out what you’ve always wanted to do – and then do it together.
Take a dance class together, go fishing, visit the Opera, take a hike, visit the zoo or try a new restaurant. It doesn’t have to be complicated. Not only will you have to work together as a couple, but you will also learn something new.
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#2 Get out of town:
With work and other important stuff taking your time, it’s very easy to have less time for yourself or even your partner. Simply heading to a neighboring town is a great way to rejuvenate a relationship – especially if it’s something you haven’t done before. Maybe you should run away to Las Vegas this weekend and catch some fun. What do you think?
When you get away from your normal surroundings, you aren’t able to sink into your normal habits. Try to get away from your home or apartment at least once a month to keep your relationship strong and healthy.
#3 Change Your Looks:
I’m not saying you should pretend to be someone else by changing your looks. The simple truth is our relationships always seem to hit the rocks when we think that once we ‘have’ someone, we don’t need to impress them anymore.
Why not try to be the more exciting couple that you want to be by dressing the part as well? Try a new look or a new hairstyle in order to change the way you look to your partner. If you’re up for it, you could change your entire wardrobe. Give yourself a total makeover and surprise your partner!
#4 Do something out of the ordinary:
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Buying flowers for your lady might seem totally cliche, but it still works to create romance in a relationship. Just don’t do it on an anniversary or some other expected occasion. Do it for no reason at all. Send some flowers or cookies to her workplace to show her how much you love her. You know she’ll love the attention and care!
#5 Cook Dinner at Home:
When was the last time you cooked a meal together? 5 years ago? Cooking a meal for your partner may sound like the oldest ‘trick’ in the book but it is a great way to create a sense of newness to a relationship – especially when you don’t do it often.
When you take the time to think about what someone wants to eat and you go ahead to create an atmosphere that supports a loving environment, it’s more than just a meal; it’s an expression of your love. When you cook and eat together, it strengthens your bond beyond your expectations.
#6 Spend Some Time Alone:
When you spend every single day with one person, you may soon find yourself feeling trapped or suffocated. To feel better, the only reasonable thing you have to do, is spend some time away from your spouse.
Visit your family for a couple of days and catch up with all the spicy news you’ve missed. This time apart will help you re-find yourself and also give you both a chance to miss each other. When you finally get back together, it would feel like a whole new start!
#7 Hang out with your friends – apart
Just like spending time alone, you still need to keep in touch with your circle of friends. When you start to lose contact of the people you knew before your partner, you can feel like your entire life is devoted to your partner – and that can be stifling.
You should hang out with the guys a few times a week; drink booze and watch football. This will remind you of the person that you are.
#8 Go On a Road Trip Together:
Some people say “travelling together is the biggest test of a relationship” and I totally agree. When you have to direct yourselves to a new place or follow the directions of a map, you will have arguments that may resurrect other issues that have been lying beneath the surface.
You would be forced to face your fears and discuss anything troubling you. You may even have big fights over the hotel to sleep in, the souvenirs to buy and other stupid stuff.
At the end of the road trip, if you prevail, you would become best friends and teammates because you worked as a team to accomplish a goal together against all odds – and that’s what will keep your relationship strong. A road trip is truly a test! You should try it someday or today! It wouldn’t be a bad idea to travel to Italy by road, would it?
#9 Show Genuine Affection For Your Partner:
Too often we let our lives get in the way of our relationships, when it should be the other way around. No matter what happens, remember to show your partner every day that she is important to you. Prove to her that you genuinely care for her – this step alone can keep your relationship healthy and strong.
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#10 Go on a Picnic:
When was the last time you went on a picnic with your partner? Guess you don’t even do that anymore. Instead of eating your lunch at home, pack up some sandwiches, cold drinks, a blanket and maybe some hats too and head out to the park to have some swell time together.
#11 Make Out Time for Intimacy:
You know I had to add this right? If I didn’t, this post wouldn’t be complete. Whatever stage you are in your relationship, always make out time for intimacy. Stop being too tired or uninterested all the time. Create time to show your partner the love you profess for her. Give her a massage or a foot rub, take a shower together and make love under the moonlight. Just do what you both want!
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#12 Play Bedroom Games:
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What other ways do you rejuvenate your relationship?