5 Exciting Ways Dirty Talk Improves Your Sex Life

5 Exciting Ways Dirty Talk Improves Your Sex Life

One of my readers contacted me the other day with a serious marriage problem. I thought I had seen the worst until I saw her mail. She was so worried that her husband never makes a sound during sex and she has no idea of what he likes. Here’s exactly what she said:

“My biggest challenge is getting my husband to talk to me about sex. We have been married for almost 7 years and I have no idea what he likes. He makes absolutely no noises, not even a moan. He has never said the words “that feels good” to me. I’ve expressed my need for feedback as I have no confidence sexually because of his lack of communication with me; but still nothing, not during, after or before sex. What do I do?”

Her major concern is that her husband never engages in dirty talk during sex. The first thing I said to her in my reply was that she waited too long to open up and her husband has gotten used to the way he behaves during sex. Of course, he doesn’t see it as a big deal but it’s killing her, their sex life and their relationship.

In all my posts, I always emphasize on the need for communication in a relationship. Open to your spouse from day one and talk about anything worrying you. Before you even consult a marriage counselor, talk it out with your spouse first. If you find it difficult starting a conversation with your partner, this Conversation Starters Guide will help you greatly.

Now, back to the topic of the day: Dirty talk…

I’ve written this post for all of you who don’t engage in dirty talk with your spouse. What’s the problem? Are you shy of your life partner? Or you simply don’t know how to talk dirty to your spouse? Let me tell you something… Dirty talk can improve your sex life and your relationship beyond your imagination. You won’t know it until you try it!

Benefits of Talking Dirty to Your Spouse

Dirty talk can be beneficial to your sex life and your relationship in so many ways:

  • It creates anticipation.
  • It awakens our sexual senses.
  • It builds sexual arousal.
  • It boosts your libido.
  • It creates intimacy between lovers.
  • It helps couples learn about each other’s sexual needs.

5 Exciting Ways Dirty Talk Improves Your Sex Life

5 Exciting Ways Dirty Talk Improves Your Sex Life

#1 It turns your partner on like magic

The number thing dirty talk does is to turn your partner on. It makes your partner anticipate for sex. It automatically puts him in the mood. When you talk dirty before sex, you save yourself minute of foreplay. You won’t need to spend so much time trying to arouse your partner because the dirty talk you used is already making him hot for you. He can hardly wait to get his hands on your sexy body.

#2 It encourages your partner to do more

You know how encouraged employees get when they receive a word of praise or encouragement from their boss? That’s exactly how dirty talk works! It encourages your partner to do more in the romance department. It motivates him to please you beyond your expectations. When you tell him you love it when he eats your pussy, he will do it again and again because he knows how much you like it.

#3 It shows your partner what you like in bed

Most couples don’t even know what their partner likes in bed. They just have sex because it’s a biological need. You need to know what your partner likes in bed and your partner needs to know what you like. You can both achieve this by talking dirty to each other.

Save yourself years exploring your bodies and still know what you like by using dirty talk whenever you can. If you enjoy sensual foot massages, say it. If you like a finger shoved up your ass during sex, tell your partner. Dirty talk shows your partner exactly what you like in bed so he won’t be second-guessing.

 

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5 Exciting Ways Dirty Talk Improves Your Sex Life

#4 It improves your relationship

An active sex life leads to a happy, healthy and fulfilling relationship. When you start using dirty talk to turn your partner on, to encourage him to do more and to show him what you like in bed, your relationship will become super-fantastic. Your relationship will become closer and stronger because you have a satisfying sex life. There won’t even be unnecessary fights because you’re completely open to each other. Dirty talk is truly amazing!

#5 It makes your partner happy

Men are always concerned when they don’t know what their women want in bed. They are even more frustrated when they can’t satisfy her. Their ego is crushed when they can’t give a woman immense pleasure. But, when you open up to your man and start telling him how he can please you, he’ll know exactly what you want.

And, he’ll be very happy because he can finally give you what you want and not what he thinks you want. The day he genuinely satisfies you will be the best day of his life! When you’re sexually satisfied, your man will be happy!

How to Talk Dirty to Your Partner

The key to talking dirty is to do it with honesty and confidence. Lovers enjoy talking dirty as a way of expressing their passionate desires in the heat of the moment. Through dirty talk, we learn about our partner’s desires as well stimulate and heighten our sexual senses. We gain knowledge about our partner’s pleasures, insecurities and sensitivities.

Dirty talk isn’t just about saying words; it is about the sounds you make, the tone of your voice and the confidence you radiate. You must be authentic and confident when you talk dirty to your spouse. The way you say it can be more powerful that what you say. Here are some examples of dirty talk you can use with your partner:

 

  • I love it when you nibble my ear lobe with your teeth.
  • When you lick my belly button, it makes me shiver with desire.
  • Seeing you naked from a shower, makes me so horny.
  • I love it when you enter me from behind.
  • When you grab my ass during sex, it makes me cum faster.
  • Foot massages make me so damn wet.
  • What would you prefer first? My tongue, my fingers or my cock?
  • I love kissing you deeply.
  • You look so sexy right now; I can’t wait to have you.
  • The sounds of your pleasure drive me crazy.
  • It feels so good being inside you.
  • You’re so wet and warm.
  • I love it when you use your tongue like that.
  • It feels good when you use the tip of your tongue on my nipples.
  • I love how your hot mouth feels on me.
  • I really like it when you go down on me.
  • You smell so good I could eat you up right now.
  • I love it when you lick the soft spot behind my ears.
  • I want you so bad, it hurts.

 

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I hope you now understand how to use dirty talk? Words have the power to arouse our imagination, makes us laugh, cry moan with desire or have an orgasm. Don’t underestimate the power of your voice.

Your voice is a powerful tool for releasing sexual desires and giving sexual pleasure. Whispering can also be very seductive because you have to get close to the ear and you know the ear is a powerful erogenous zone for many people.

Learning how to trigger powerful sexual emotions with your voice and touch builds intense sexual arousal. Don’t try to figure out something sexy to say to your spouse; just be genuine. Say whatever suits your personality; let the words come straight from your heart. Authenticity is important, otherwise you will sound fake.

Don’t be shy about talking dirty with your spouse. Dirty talk will improve your relationship if you use it correctly. Tell your partner how good he is in bed. Tell him how much you love it when he grabs your ass during sex.

Let him know how horny you get when he massages your feet and thighs. If you don’t tell him, how will he know he is giving you immense pleasure? I give you full permission to talk dirty before, during and after sex.

If you want more dirty talk examples, grab a copy of 131 Dirty Talk Examples and learn 131 tried-and-tested phrases you can use to get your partner in the mood before, during & after love making. You will learn many ways to get started talking dirty and how to build it up gradually so you are comfortable & sound confident when you say them. Have fun with dirty talk!

 

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