Today is one of those days when I tell you harsh truths without sugar coating anything. It may hurt you but I only want to help you and that means giving you blunt advice. With that out of the way, let’s jump in… Do you know the top 4 reasons why men leave women they love?
I’m sure you’ve thought about it but couldn’t place a finger on it or maybe you’ve guessed them but you’re not exactly sure. After a few failed relationships, I’ve finally discovered the reasons why men leave women they love; you’ll be totally shocked at the reasons.
Men probably already know all the reasons but women may be in shock finding out. If you’ve been wondering why your boyfriend or husband who loved you left you, you’re about to find out in this post…
4 SHOCKING REASONS WHY MEN LEAVE WOMEN THEY LOVE
#1 Bad Communication:
This may come as a shock to you but the number one reason why men leave women they love is bad communication. Men love interesting women who know how to hold a good conversation; they can’t stand shallow and extremely vain women.
They need women to be able to express themselves clearly without leaving them confused and guessing. Men generally dislike women who nag! The irony in this is that most women don’t realize they are doing this and they often call it “communication” which is one word men are allergic to.
You may think you’re communicating when you nag at him but you’re not. When you nag, it feels like a dog barking! Seriously, he won’t understand a word you say. Don’t think you’re communicating when you’re nagging; you’re just making loud noises.
If you want to hold a man’s attention forever and make him stay with you, you need to learn how to communicate effectively. Learn how to talk to a man gently even when you’re angry. Manage your temper, take a deep breath, sit him down and express how you feel clearly.
When you start shouting and yelling, he will hear you but he won’t listen to you. Give a man the respect he needs by talking gently to him even when you’re mad. If you don’t know how to communicate well, a man might leave you even when he loves you!
#2 Terrible Sex:
Surprisingly, the second place goes to terrible sex especially giving head. Most men love sex and they expect you to give it to them as much as they want. There’s nothing else they want as bad as regular sex; they crave it.
Men need to be physically engaged with the woman they love and the only way they do that is by making love. The emotional stuff― holding hands, cuddling, talking and bonding are things women do to feel connected.
But, the way men connect is by having sex; it helps them recharge and face life better. The same way you like to watch TV to wind down after a long day, that’s how men like to have sex after a hectic day. They need sex like they need air; it’s that important to them!
Men also have great expectations when it comes to oral sex and they are willing to exchange their girlfriend for the one with better oral sex skills within minutes of finding her. Men don’t want to have to beg you for sex especially when you say you love them.
They want you to freely give it to them with excitement; they hate being turned down for sex. They can understand when you’re on your period or when you’re sick.
But, if you keep coming up with 101 reasons why he can’t have sex with the woman he loves, he’s going to start looking for another woman who can satisfy him. It’s really that simple for most men!
Don’t make sex seem like a chore and don’t see it as him pestering you. See it as a way for both of you to relax and reconnect after a tiring day. Stop rationing sex. Stop being too tired or not in the mood for sex.
Start seeing sex as an act of love between a man and a woman who love each other. When you change your mindset about sex, you’ll enjoy it more. Every man needs sex from his woman!
#3 Weight issues:
Most women think this would be the top reason for a man losing interest in her but it’s not. If you’re good at communication and you know how to give oral, a man will overlook the fact that you’re overweight.
If you know how to hold a good conversation and you’re sexually active, he won’t mind your weight at all. Seriously! But where it gets worse is when you’re bad at holding a conversation, you’re terrible at sex and you’re fat. How bad can it get after that?
Fortunately, most men are willing to accept a slight weight gain if you stop complaining about unnecessary things and start fulfilling his sexual needs. So, instead of excessive dieting, learn how to communicate better and how to give amazing blowjobs.
Of course, that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be conscious of your weight. Excessive weight can be detrimental to your health so you need to watch it!
This is among the top 4 reasons why men leave women they love and it really doesn’t have much to do with you; it all has to do with the man in question. Most insecure men feel their women are too good for them because of how nice and attractive she is.
It makes them insecure when they think of you leaving when you find a better man. So, they leave first to protect themselves from heartbreak. It sounds insane but it’s true for some men who don’t want to constantly compete with other men for your attention.
Most insecure men feel they lack something to give to you; it could be good looks, money, unconditional love or bedroom skills. If a man cannot provide for you or satisfy you sexually, it makes him nervous and insecure.
Men love to be in charge; they want to provide for you, protect you and satisfy you sexually. When he can’t fulfill all these needs, he starts imagining you cheating on him with a more handsome, rich or well-endowed man and then he hits the door fast without an explanation.
The only way you can make this type of men stay is by constantly reassuring them that you love for them for who they are and that you’re never going to leave them. In most cases, even after you’ve done all of that, some insecure men will still leave you.
In this case, you’ll have to move on and find a more confident man who deserves you in his life. It’s not your fault he’s insecure. Don’t change yourself to be someone you’re not; be yourself and you’ll find a man who will stay with you.
Phew! That was a lot to swallow, wasn’t it? I had to tell you so you can finally understand why men leave women they love. Whatever reason resonates with you, just work on it but don’t be too hard on yourself.
If you have bad communication skills, I recommend Conversation Chemistry to teach you how to talk to a man and keep him interested in you.
If you’re not so good at giving oral sex, learn how to give amazing blowjobs he actually enjoys and improve your sex life.
If you’re overweight, I highly recommend the Red Tea Detox program to help you lose weight fast and be a better version of yourself.