How to Explore Your Sexual Fantasies With Erotic Roleplay

How to explore your sexual fantasies with erotic role play

Are you the type of person that has a boundless imagination? Have you ever thought of engaging in erotic roleplay? There is no shame in saying that you are a creative person that loves adding a little depth to their sexual exploits.

If you have been with a partner for a long time, and they are on board with jumping into the depths of erotic roleplay, there is nothing wrong with moving from just a random sexy scenario to something that is more defined.

Sex is meant to be fun for both you and your partner. Whether this means you construct a story that lasts 3 hours, or just want to stick to a quick erotically charged scenario, it is entirely up to you.

HOW TO EXPLORE YOUR SEXUAL FANTASIES WITH EROTIC ROLEPLAY

How to explore your sexual fantasies with erotic role play

If you want to explore your sexual fantasies, think of erotic roleplay as a private theatre performance for both you and your partner. The bedroom is your stage and you are both the actors and audience.

The main task is to sexually satiate yourselves while also indulging in a little bit of acting. But the main question is how far you would like to go with it. Some people are happy with indulging in the kinky fantasy, such as being a naughty schoolgirl or Doctor’s Patient.

Others like to take it a step further by indulging in a plot around it. For instance, if your erotic plot consists of your partner booking a London Escort, you may want to consider your character’s backstory, how and why they became an escort and the reasons why your partner has booked an escort in the first place.

It can be extremely fun to go into depth with your sexual fantasies but don’t worry, you do not have to jump straight into that sort of play. Just by starting off with a little dirty talking can be enough to get you in the mood for a change of sexual dynamic in your bedroom.

WHY YOU SHOULD ADD EROTIC ROLEPLAY TO YOUR SEX LIFE

How to explore your sexual fantasies with erotic role play

Let’s admit it, we all have dirty little fantasies that we may not have the confidence to bring into the real world. Erotic roleplay is a fantastic way of lowering your inhibitions and helping you relax while you connect sexually with your partner.

You are playing a completely different character and are free to figure out what sort of things you enjoy. If you love historical dramas and have experienced being turned on by the idea of a “gentleman” having his way with you, then incorporate it into your sex life!

Remember, that in erotic roleplay you are simply pretending to be in the scenario, so even if you act out having someone dominate you, it is entirely consensual. If your partner or you feel uncomfortable, then you have every right to stop the scenario and re-think about what you would enjoy doing.

If you’re looking for roleplay inspiration, take a look at the sort of porn or erotica you enjoy! There will always be something that catches your attention. So feel free to incorporate it into your bedroom antics. Erotic roleplay is an exciting way to boost your sex drive and improve your sex life.

6 STEPS TO INDULGING IN EROTIC ROLEPLAY

How to explore your sexual fantasies

#1 Use storylines

For the avid erotic roleplayer, sometimes the thrill of the scenario comes from the characters you create and the situations you place yourself into. At the end of the day, you are playing a character.

They have their own personality and back story but also have been created in a fantasy environment where you can decide on what happens to them. The most extreme of sexual role players will form a whole backdrop to their characters, moving on with a story that encapsulates both them and their characters and how they function within their made-up world.

For instance, if yours and your partner’s characters are hiding out in the woods, would you initiate a conversation before falling into each other’s arms? It is all about figuring out what the characters can do. You can have a fun mixture of theatre and sex all bundled up into one delicious package.

If that is the sort of thing that you are into then go for it! There is nothing more fun than creating a storyline and sticking to it during erotic roleplay. Don’t feel pressurized into doing this though.

Roleplaying is all about indulging in a scenario that best fits you, your interests and how quickly you want to have sex. Sometimes you just want to indulge in a little taboo scene or you may want to bring a whole saucy storyline to life. The choice is entirely yours about what sort of scenario you want to enjoy!

#2 Try popular media plots

If you’re trying out erotic roleplay, you should know that there is nothing wrong with indulging in a little sexual play in relation to popular media. In fact, a lot of couples enjoy playing out scenes from popular movies.

Perhaps you are a die-hard fan of “Game Of Thrones” or you would give anything to go to Hogwarts and become a Witch/Wizard? Either way, these plotlines are perfect to use when you are looking to spice up your intimacy.

Whether you take on the role of a character, create your own character or just make up an entirely new scenario altogether, you and your partner will be able to nerd out in each other’s company.

The more silly these erotic roleplays tend to be, the better the outcome. Remember that your storyline does not have to be perfect. As long as it leads to passionate sex then you can be as whimsical as you please.

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#3 Don’t be afraid to laugh!

At the end of the day, a roleplay scenario only needs to be as serious as you make it out to be. Unless you and your lover are extremely good actors or really serious roleplayers, then you shouldn’t worry too much about the plot or what your characters actually say and do.

Add a few jokes here and there and don’t be scared to break out of character for a laugh. This can actually bring you and your partner closer together as it is evident that you are both just enjoying the moment.

How to explore your sexual fantasies with costumes

#4 Add some costumes and props

Naturally, if you are thinking about indulging in erotic roleplay, you may want to consider what would potentially get you in the mood. You can buy a whole range of adult costumes from lingerie shops, or even just go to cheap stores to find “themed clothing” that would get you in the right frame of mind.

For instance, if you want to play around with the classic “College Student and Professor” Fantasy, just look for a tight white shirt (with a collar) and a pleated skirt. Put your hair into some pigtails and, voila, you have the sexy student look.

Even just wearing a simple pencil skirt and white shirt can give you the gorgeous professional look of a businesswoman or secretary that your partner craves. If all else fails, look through the clothes that you already own. Consider what could be transformed into the perfect outfit for your fantasy.

Of course, you can throw in some sex toys and props as well to make it more exciting. These little naughty devils can be easily incorporated into your sexual fantasies. What would a dirty police officer be without his handcuffs or a master without his kinky whip?

Take a moment to think about the sort of scenario you are going to indulge in. Your toys can be as extreme as you prefer them to be, but some may be best suited to more scenarios than others.

Try not to use all of your toys in one go. Instead, build up to them so that you can focus on the fun in the scenario and save your other toys for a completely different role-play scenario.

#5 Explore different locations

While the bedroom is always a good place to start your roleplay antics, have you ever considered incorporating other locations into your intimacy? Just visiting a hotel for the night can be the perfect place to let your imagination run wild.

After all, it is a fresh environment and you will only be in there for one night! So think of something unique and fun to indulge in for the night before you leave and allow the roleplay to become a fond memory.

If you want to take it a little further, you can even organize a date night around your roleplay idea. Go out with your partner for a date in a bar and either pretend to be strangers that get drunk for a one night stand or perhaps you are meeting with your boss for a drink to beg them to let you keep your job.

The scenarios you can play around with are practically endless. As long as you are both consenting to your romantic activities, and are happy with the idea you have come up with, you will always end up having fun.

#6 Just have fun roleplaying!

Erotic roleplaying is actually more common than you think it is. So don’t be afraid to ask your partner to add a little more spice to your intimate adventures.

What is most important is that you both communicate in order to find a scenario that you will both enjoy acting out. Talk about your interests and see where your ideas go from there.

 

Plotting out an erotic roleplay can be extremely fun. Plus, it’s a fantastic treat after a difficult day for you get to unwind and simply enjoy your night in the shoes of a different person. Forget about the world for a few hours and just have fun with your lover!

 

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