I know you are cringing at the thought of how mutual masturbation can improve your love life and your relationship as a whole. Let’s be honest; it sounds like something awful that you don’t want to do and even if you do it you don’t want your partner to find out.
So, it’s easier for you to fake an orgasm when you’re with your partner and afterward, you play with yourself alone and feel empowered with a mind-blowing orgasm. How long can you really keep that act going?
It’s so frustrating when your partner is the only one having all the fun. He gets satisfied each time you make love but then you’re left midway without any orgasm. How unfair is that?
When I first met my current boyfriend, I was so shy of feeling vulnerable that I used to fake orgasms during intercourse and later when he fell asleep, I’ll touch myself and feel relieved. It went on for almost 6 months when it dawned on me that I wasn’t being honest with him.
So, I decided that if we were to have a serious, honest and long-lasting relationship, I needed to open up to him. It was scary because I knew I had to be vulnerable and totally free with him. I hadn’t done this with anyone before but I felt it was the right thing to do so I opened up to him. What was the result?
A happier, healthier and stronger relationship with the man of my dreams. I’m happy I took that firm decision earlier. It’s been 8 years now and our relationship is waxing stronger every day plus, we know exactly where we are headed.
I want you to have the same thing with your partner and I’m willing to help you achieve it. When you learn how to successfully reach orgasm on your own and then you teach your partner how to please you so you can both reach that heightened pleasure together, your relationship will be more fulfilling.
Today, I want to share with you 5 ways you can incorporate mutual masturbation into your relationship to make it stronger. I know it sounds counter-productive but just trust me on this one. I’m talking from experience! But, first, let’s be on the same page…
What is Mutual Masturbation?
I’m just going to briefly explain what it is for those of you who don’t know what is. For me, masturbation is simply exploring your body to discover ways you can bring immense pleasure to yourself.
It involves you touching your body to find hot zones that give you pleasure and also lead to a satisfying orgasm. Your hot zones maybe that soft skin behind your ears, your neck, your belly button, the back of your knee or your G-spot.
The first time you touch yourself, you do it solely out of curiosity. You actually don’t know what to expect or how it will end. In fact, there is a huge chance that the first 5 times you try, you may not reach an orgasm. But, the curious part of you knows that there is more to your body than you’re experiencing.
So, you continue exploring and each time you get so close to the edge but then you lose it. And one day, you unlock the key to that hidden treasure inside of you and you are the only one who has the map to it.
Mutual masturbation, on the other hand, is when two lovers stimulate each other’s genitals simultaneously and possible reach orgasm together.
There’s no perfect way to do it; you can stay in any comfortable position and do whatever seems pleasurable to each other. If you want to have more fun, you can try using household toys.
Here’s the exciting part…
5 Ways Mutual Masturbation Can Improve Your Relationship
#1 It can help you find your hidden zones
Can you imagine how long it will take for your partner to fully understand your body and bring you to orgasm? It would be so frustrating to endure all that torture but never reaching that glorious mountain top with him.
But, since you’re the only one who truly knows your body, touching yourself intimately helps you to quickly identify those hot zones that make your body quake with pleasure. And when you show your partner those hidden zones, what happens? He is more than eager to give you all the pleasure you want.
#2 It will help you learn how to reach orgasm on your own
Masturbation doesn’t just stop at discovering your hidden zones. After finding those hot zones, you will get excited when you touch them and when you continue to stimulate them, you will learn how to bring yourself to orgasm effortlessly within a few minutes.
The first time may take long but afterward, you will know exactly where to touch and how to touch to bring yourself immense pleasure. So, all that frustration and tension you had building up inside, gets washed away by a flowing river.
#3 It can help you teach your partner how to please you
Men usually get frustrated when they cannot please their woman. They want to give her as much pleasure as they are receiving. Please put your man out of that misery and make it easy for him by showing him exactly how you do it. Show him what he is doing wrong!
First, touch yourself while he watches so he can learn how you bring yourself to orgasm. Then, let him touch you to see if he can make you reach orgasm by himself.
Make sure you give him directions while he is at it and also put your mind into it. Don’t feel shy or vulnerable; let go of all those negative emotions.
It may take a few tries but with directions and the right movement, he will be able to please you. Imagine how happy and proud he will feel when he finally brings you over the edge. That is a man’s biggest wish when it comes to intimacy; being able to satisfy his woman.
#4 It will help you bond deeply with your partner
Allowing your man to bring you to orgasm means you have to be vulnerable enough to open up to him completely without feeling shy. That’s a powerful process that can lead to a deep bond with your partner! That vulnerability is exactly what makes you bond with him especially if he is the only man who can make you reach orgasm.
When your partner makes you orgasm repeatedly, there are love hormones that are released into your body that help you bond really quick with him. Your heart has no other option than to bond with the man who makes you happy by giving you immense pleasure.
#5 It can help put your partner in the mood
Have you tried playing with yourself in front of your man? How does he feel when you start fingering your nipples and moaning softly? I bet he will grab you immediately. Mutual masturbation does not only help to give you pleasure, but it also turns your man on.
In fact, that’s the fastest way to turn a man on. Lie naked on the bed and start touching yourself while you moan deeply. It will make your man go crazy with desire. And, of course, when your intimate life is awesome, your relationship will be super-fantastic.
So, you’ve discovered how mutual masturbation can improve your love life and your relationship with your partner but it doesn’t have to stop there.
You can continue to explore so many other ways to add excitement to your intimate life. Just don’t get addicted to only one form of pleasure; variety is the spice of life!
P.S. You have to do this with someone you’re serious with because it deepens the bond you already have. Don’t do it with a casual fling; do it with someone who is open-minded and adventurous.
You have the key and the map to your hidden treasure so when you decide to share that secret with someone, let him be special and worthy. If you have any questions concerning this topic, you know where to reach me.