Do you think you’re great in bed? Think about that question for a few seconds and be honest with yourself.
Since you’re reading this post right now, it’s likely that you’re not so confident in the bedroom and you want to know what you’re doing wrong.
It’s important to find out what is missing in your love life so you can put in necessary efforts to be great in bed.
When it comes to lovemaking, a lot of women don’t know what they’re really doing.
Sometimes they go with the flow of things, other times they wait for the man to do the whole job.
There’s a lot more attached to making love than just opening your legs to satisfy a man’s needs.
Lovemaking is an art that involves tenderness, passion, desire, patience, and love.
If you’re terrible in bed and don’t even know what you’re doing when it comes to intimacy, your relationship won’t remain secure for a long time.
I can totally relate to this because I used to be in this category…
When I first started dating, I was a total novice in the bedroom, I didn’t understand my body and I couldn’t keep any man interested in me.
I struggled to satisfy my previous boyfriend in bed but all my efforts led to him cheating on me with another girl who was obviously more experienced than me.
At that moment, I realized I was terrible in bed and I made a vow to become irreplaceable to my life partner.
I decided that I would learn everything I could about intimacy so I can cheat-proof my future relationships.
Honestly, if you make the effort to really satisfy your partner, your love life will improve and your man will be more emotionally connected to you.
If you’re serious about working on your lovemaking skills, take a look at 7 really obvious signs you’re terrible in bed:
7 REALLY OBVIOUS SIGNS YOU’RE TERRIBLE IN BED
#1 You’re not confident
Confidence is the number one thing you need to have in order to be good in bed.
If you discover that you’re always shy and uncertain around a man because of a poor body image or lack of experience, you won’t perform very well in the bedroom.
Do you often find yourself worried or anxious that you may not be able to truly satisfy a man?
Do you ever feel like you don’t even know if you’re doing the right thing in bed?
If you answered “yes” to any of these questions, you’re not confident about your lovemaking skills and that’s one of the early signs of being terrible in bed.
When you’re not confident with a man, he’ll definitely know it and this may turn him off if it goes on for too long.
#2 You’re not active enough
Being great in bed requires active participation and responsiveness during lovemaking.
How do you react when you’re getting intimate with a man? Do you lie still and wait for him to do his thing and finish up? That’s not too good!
No man enjoys making love to a dead fish. If you want to be good in bed, you have to physically get involved during lovemaking.
When you’re active enough, your man will know what you like and how to improve in his bedroom skills.
#3 You don’t understand your own body
Most women who are terrible in bed, have no clue about what they want in bed and they don’t even understand their own body.
The truth is, if you don’t know your intimate needs, you won’t be able to achieve satisfaction on your own.
And if you can’t satisfy yourself, how do you expect a man to satisfy you in bed?
You owe it to yourself to know your body intimately and then pass on that knowledge to a man.
#4 You have no clue about what a man wants
Do you know exactly what your man likes or dislikes in bed? Do you know the things that turn him on and off?
A great lover knows all these things about her partner and applies them accordingly to bring him ultimate satisfaction.
When you’re getting intimate with a man, you’re supposed to know what you’re doing so you can achieve maximum pleasure together.
If you’re terrible in bed, you won’t know how to touch a man to drive him crazy, you won’t know what turns him on and you won’t even know how to truly please a man.
If you can satisfy a man in bed, he’ll become totally addicted to you and committed to a stable relationship with you.
#5 You suck at talking dirty
Have you ever tried talking dirty to a man? What was the result?
If your man got super turned on because of your dirty talk and you ended up making passionate love, you’re officially a pro in the language of desire.
But if you were too shy to even say anything or you started it but your man was looking at you in a weird way then it means you totally suck at talking dirty.
Words are really powerful when used the right way. They can turn a man on or off in an instant.
You need to master the art of dirty talk so your man can daydream about you even when you’re not around him.
#6 You don’t know how to give oral
A lot of men enjoying getting oral more than lovemaking especially if you know how to do it well.
Unfortunately, most women don’t know what they’re doing when they want to give oral.
If you’re one of those women who use too much saliva, lots of teeth, and no rhythm, I’m sorry to say that your man has been pretending to enjoy it.
When a man truly enjoys an oral activity, you won’t need to ask him about it, you’ll see the satisfaction all over his face.
#7 You’re not spontaneous
Spontaneity adds spice to every relationship and it’s really important that you apply it in your love life.
If you’re always too rigid or straightforward in bed, your man won’t be happy with you.
Men love women who are fun and adventurous in the bedroom.
Don’t stick to only one lovemaking position or style every time you make love.
Explore different things in the bedroom. Try new locations and be open to new ideas.
Being great in bed takes practice and patience.
You won’t get it right the first few times you try but if you keep practicing, you’ll be a pro in no time.
If you want to be really good in bed, The Irresistible Diva is a step-by-step guide that will teach you how to be the best lover he’s ever had and even make him totally addicted to you.
When you enroll for The Irresistible Diva course, you’ll start enjoying a loving and secure relationship with your man.
You’ll have more control over your love life and never have to worry about cheating, feeling inadequate in the bedroom, or worry if he’s satisfied.
And you don’t have to wonder…
You will know exactly how to give your man what he really wants in bed while feeling super confident, attractive, and empowered.