10 Unhealthy Things You Shouldn’t do in a Relationship

Unhealthy things you shouldn't do in a relationship

Everyone talks about having healthy relationships and what you need to do to have them but no one talks about the unhealthy things you shouldn’t do in a relationship. You know I always write about things you can do to help you keep your relationship together. But today, my post is going to be a little bit different. I’m going to share something new with you; something that is going to really contribute to the growth of your relationship. There […]


How Long Should Dating or Courtship Last?

how long should dating or courtship last?

Last weekend, I was discussing with a group of friends over a bottle of red wine and the topic of the day was ”how long should dating or courtship last?” Two people seated on another table were eavesdropping and before long they moved closer to our table. When they joined our table, a question was thrown at all of us to answer and the question was how long should dating or courtship last? Everyone attempted the question based on their own level of understanding and soberness.  […]


7 Secrets Every Nigerian Woman Keeps From Her Man

Every Nigerian woman has a secret. Many secrets they never tell anyone. They hide them in the deepest part of their hearts for fear that people will see them as terrible women.  They are afraid to speak up for fear that their partners will either leave them or never trust them again. Sometimes, the only person who knows about the secret is someone who is very close to them or someone who is also a partner in crime. In this post, […]


5 Obvious Reasons Why Igbo Men Never Get Married Early

I was chatting with a close friend the other day and somehow we landed into marriage talk. I wanted to find out why Igbo men never get married early so I started asking him lots of questions. When I told him I was planning on settling down soon, his reply was “You’re a Lady! We men have a longer way to go.” Trust me, I didn’t leave the matter at that. So, I asked him “Aren’t your mates married?” He laughed […]


5 Major Reasons Why Men Drink Excess Alcohol

The other day, I went to a hair salon with a friend of mine to plait my hair and it took ages to finish. While we were still there, my friend’s phone rang and she picked up the call. A few seconds later, she got upset and started shouting at the person on the other end of the line. The conversation become a heated argument and soon they were both yelling and calling each other nasty names. She angrily cut […]


8 Real Reasons Why Men Chase Women

I’ve heard a lot of girls and even women say “all men are the same” because of nasty experiences they have had over the years in relationships with men.  These nasty experiences could have been in the form of men cheating on them or breaking their hearts when they had pictured their lives forever with them.  This results in the women becoming cold and distant to men; although they are merely protecting themselves, some women overdo it. They just cover their […]