Everyone talks about having healthy relationships and what you need to do to have them but no one talks about the unhealthy things you shouldn’t do in a relationship. You know I always write about things you can do to help you keep your relationship together.… CONTINUE READING
Last weekend, I was discussing with a group of friends over a bottle of red wine and the topic of the day was ”how long should dating or courtship last?” Two people seated on another table were eavesdropping and before long they moved closer to our table.… CONTINUE READING
Is your man ignoring you for no reason? I think he is sulking and for good reason. The word “sulking” is often associated with children and women. Men are never seen as sulkers. … CONTINUE READING
Every Nigerian woman has a secret. Many secrets they never tell anyone. They hide them in the deepest part of their hearts for fear that people will see them as terrible women. … CONTINUE READING
I was chatting with a close friend the other day and somehow we landed into marriage talk. I wanted to find out why Igbo men never get married early so I started asking him lots of questions.… CONTINUE READING
The other day, I went to a hair salon with a friend of mine to plait my hair and it took ages to finish. While we were still there, my friend’s phone rang and she picked up the call.… CONTINUE READING
same” because of nasty experiences they have had over the years in
relationships with men.
This results in the women becoming cold and distant to
men; although they are merely protecting themselves, some women overdo it. They
just cover their hearts with different layers of armour, refusing to open up
even when they meet “the one”.
They are scared of falling back where they had
struggled to come out of.