When you’re dating someone new, it can be hard to know if they’re really into you because you’re developing feelings for them, which can prevent you from thinking logically.
This can make you read more than is there or over-think things because you want your relationship to turn into something more.
You may spend sleepless nights thinking about your partner and trying to figure out if they’re the one for you.
Luckily, when a man adores you, he’ll show it in his words, actions, and body language. And you won’t have to wonder if he truly loves you or not.
Whether you just started dating a guy or you’ve been together for a while, here are 7 signs he totally adores you — and it’s very hard to miss these!
7 SIGNS HE TOTALLY ADORES YOU
1. He shows you his goofy side
This sounds like a strange one, I’ll admit it. But have you seen a man in love? He acts in a goofy manner. He’ll have a lopsided grin and even act giddy around you.
He actually wants to do those “cute little things” that men usually hate, like rubbing noses together and sharing an ice cream.
When he adores you, it brings out his cute side, because he feels happy, in love, and open with you. That’s how you know you’re dating the right guy.
A man who loves you will be more playful and romantic with you. He won’t mind cuddling with you, holding hands when you walk down the street, and having pillow fights with you.
2. He can’t go a day without hearing from you
The honeymoon phase of a relationship is so much fun. You’re both infatuated and want to see each other regularly.
You enjoy talking on the phone and spending quality time together as a couple. In fact, you can’t seem to get enough each other.
One of the biggest signs a man is deeply in love is that he can’t stand going more than a day without talking to you. He’ll text you good morning or even call when you’re apart.
He’ll keep in touch with you to see how you’re doing and how your day is going.
And he’ll especially check on you if he knows you’re dealing with something that day that’s hard or stressful.
He might call out of the blue just to hear your voice or to tell you he’s thinking of you. That’s a clear show of love and affection in a romantic relationship.
3. He’ll throw caution to the wind
I mean this in the best way possible. A man who’s passionately in love won’t care what others think about him while he tries to win your heart.
He might make big, bold public displays of affection, like standing up in a park and singing to you.
And he’ll be happy to make a fool of himself. He might make some big decisions and changes so he can see you more.
He’ll also make you a priority above other things because he wants you to feel special.
When a man adores you, he’ll make out time to be with you and will even go out of his way to make you feel loved.
For example, he might drop by your workplace every day to take you out for lunch or he’ll send you beautiful flowers once a week to remind you that you’re important to him.
4. He gives you the last one
When you’re sharing a bag of cookies with a man and he looks down to realize there is only one cookie left, what happens next will tell you a lot about his feelings for you.
Does he grab it for himself? Does it offer it to you, hoping you won’t take it? Or does he pick up the last chip and feed it to you?
Not only will he want you to have the last of things, but he’ll also want to share things with you if he adores you.
In contrast, I once dated a man who was very sweet for a while.
One day I spotted a bag of chips in his truck. It was one of our favorite shared snacks. I happily held up the bag and said, “Look what I found!” I fully expected him to share.
Instead, he asked me, rather grumpily, “And can you put them back?” That’s not how a man who adores a woman acts!
You’ll know he adores you because when you accidentally do something that could offend him, he’ll shrug it off.
He’ll think you’re cute and adorable, and tell you so. A man who cherishes you won’t snap at you or pick a fight with you over little things.
He’ll treat you like a queen and be very patient when you make mistakes or misunderstand him.
5. He’ll overlook the things that aren’t adorable
If you’re like me, you’re worried about doing anything that comes off as gross or “not-so-cute” in front of your man. But life happens.
When a man adores you, he won’t be turned off when you do something embarrassing. It’ll seem like he doesn’t care about leg stubble or morning breath.
Truth be told, when a man is smitten, he might even find it cute when you do something you’d rather not let him see.
When he adores you, it’s like you can’t do anything wrong and he’ll be really understanding when you show him your flaws.
6. He’ll want to hold you, cuddle with you, and gaze into your eyes
When a man adores you, he shows it with actual adoration. He’ll smile ear to ear and tell people how lucky he is to have you in his life.
The attraction is at a crazy-high level and he wants to touch you as much as possible. That’s one of the sure signs he totally adores you.
This is because men are not usually emotional like women and it takes a lot of love for them to be able to do the romantic stuff.
So if your man is cuddling with you, gazing into your eyes lovingly, and staring at you for no reason, he’s obviously in love with you.
7. He thinks about you all the time and lets you know it
A man who’s serious about you will see you as an important part of his life, which means he’ll ask for your opinion about things and update you regularly on his daily activities.
He’ll text you about a new restaurant he just saw because he thinks you might like it or ask you to choose between two outfits he’s shopping for himself.
He’ll send you flowers or other surprises when you’re at work. He’ll send “miss you” and “thinking about you” texts.
A guy who’s hopelessly in love will do things that let you know he thinks about you during his day, like planning a romantic evening or buying you something he knows you’ll love.
He might actually write a love letter or send a long email to express his feelings. A man who adores you will let you know how he feels and won’t be ashamed to be vulnerable with you.
If your boyfriend is super affectionate with you, that’s a sign he loves you deeply and wants to build a long-term relationship with you.
If you’ve been wondering where you stand with your new boyfriend, I’ve just given you 7 signs he totally adores you.
If you look closely enough, you’ll notice at least 4 of them in your relationship. So, you know the signs he adores you, and that probably means that you like him as much.
But does that automatically mean he’s a keeper? If you want to know if you’re with the right person, click on any of the related posts below to learn more about your relationship.
About The Author
Jennifer Dagi is happily married to her best friend and the love of her life.
As a relationship coach, she is passionate about helping couples build healthy and happy relationships.
She strongly believes communication and intimacy are the most important ingredients for building a successful relationship.
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