Do you ever find yourself staring at your phone, hoping for a text message from your ex? We’ve all been there.
Breakups are tough, but sometimes they’re not the end of the road.
If you’re wondering whether your ex will come crawling back, this article is for you.
There are some telltale signs that your former partner might still have feelings for you.
From their social media behavior to those “accidental” run-ins at your favorite coffee shop, we’re about to reveal all the clues that suggest your ex still loves you.
9 SURE SIGNS YOUR EX WILL COME BACK
How can you tell if your ex will come back to you after a breakup?
There are many ways to know if someone isn’t over you yet and wants to rekindle a relationship with you.
Watch out for the following signs your ex will come back:
1. They reach out to you from time to time
A major sign your ex will come back is that they reach out frequently to check up on you.
They may send you a text message or call without a clear agenda and try to make casual conversation about life updates.
They contact you often to keep the lines of communication open between you two.
Another sign is if your ex contacts you on important dates like birthdays, holidays, or anniversaries.
They may make excuses to talk by bringing up trivial issues just to reach out and reminisce. It’s their way of keeping you present in their life.
If your ex frequently asks how you’re doing, what’s new in your life, or if you’re dating, they seem interested in knowing your current situation.
Their curiosity stems from lingering feelings, indicating they may want to reconnect romantically down the line.
2. They often engage with your posts on social media
If your ex can’t stop scrolling through your posts and stories, there’s a good chance they’re still interested in you.
Engaging with your online content by liking, commenting, and viewing stories shows they’re keeping tabs on your life.
According to relationship experts, this “stalking” is one way exes test the waters before reaching out again.
But watch out—sometimes exes play games too. Tagging you on their posts and flaunting new partners on social media is a classic move for attention and vengeance.
They want you to get jealous of their new “perfect” relationship. It’s all about stroking their ego and making you feel the pain they did.
Deep down though, interacting with your content means they can’t quite let go.
Even if they claim to be “so over you,” checking up on your life online suggests otherwise.
Some exes never fully move on—that connection is hard to break. Whether it’s curiosity or lingering feelings, social media stalking shows they still care.
3. They ask to meet with you and catch up
Your ex reaching out to meet up and “catch up” could signal they miss your presence in their life.
Although this act alone doesn’t definitively mean they want to rekindle the romance, it suggests they crave that connection again, even if just as friends.
On the other hand, your ex may have an ulterior motive— they could be gauging if you’re still interested.
The meet-up lets them test the waters to see if reconciliation is possible.
Stay calm and keep things positive. Leaving them wanting more could lead to future dates with romantic potential.
Curiosity about your current life may also drive them to reach out.
They might just want updates on your romantic status or daily routines, which means you’re still on their mind.
4. They reminisce about the good times you had together
When you interact with your ex, do they reminisce about the happy moments you shared?
Do they share an inside joke, a special trip, or a silly picture that sparks nostalgia for the good old days?
Recalling positive memories is a sure sign an ex is not over you yet.
Mentioning fun times from your relationship is their subtle way of expressing lingering feelings.
They might text a throwback photo with “Remember this?” or bring up your private jokes as an indirect hint that part of them misses what you had.
When an ex frequently reminisces about the good times, it likely means they cherish the connection you once shared and wish they could experience the happy moments with you again.
According to maxjancar.com, exes who “bring up past hurts and old memories in good light” haven’t fully moved on.
5. They ask friends and family about you
A sure sign an ex wants to reconnect with you is that they’re constantly checking in with your inner circle, asking mutual friends about you and even reaching out to your family members for new information on you.
Deep down, they want to know if you’ve moved on—because they haven’t.
Asking your loved ones about you is a classic sign an ex still has feelings for you and wants to rekindle your relationship.
They just can’t resist probing for personal details and are fishing for any information that could mean you’re leaving the door cracked open for them.
Staying looped in on your private life means they’re dreaming of sliding right back in.
Does your ex still chat with your friends or family? That’s a positive sign! They’re maintaining ties to your inner circle as a way to stay connected to you.
If your ex is really invested in keeping up with your day-to-day, it probably means they’re holding onto the fantasy of you two as a couple again.
They’re clinging to every shred of you they can get through others which signifies that you’re still on their mind.
Get ready—a reunion attempt could be coming your way soon.
6. They regularly invite you to social events
Receiving frequent social invites could signify your ex still cares deeply.
They’re making an effort to spend quality time together, likely hoping to rekindle the spark. It’s their way of showing you’re still on their mind.
Regularly inviting you out allows your ex to keep you in their inner circle.
It’s a subtle move to maintain a connection with you and prevent you from completely moving on.
Don’t be surprised if social invites involve your mutual friends too.
Your ex may use these group settings to show you a “better” version of themselves. It’s all part of their effort to win you back.
7. They remember the most important dates in your life
Does your ex reach out on significant dates like your birthday or anniversary? That’s a huge sign they’re not over you yet.
Remembering special occasions in your life shows they still cherish those milestones from your time together.
If your ex sends you birthday wishes or calls you to celebrate with you on Valentine’s Day, that’s a sign they still care about you.
Take note if they mention future events or date ideas involving you both.
Making an effort to be present in your life signals their desire to rekindle the romance.
8. They mention that they are still single
A big sign your former partner hasn’t moved on is that they’re not actively looking to date anyone new.
If your ex is still single after months of your breakup, it could mean they’re holding out hope for reconciling. Why else would they avoid dating others?
Staying unattached after all this time has to mean something. Maybe deep down, they believe you two can make it work again.
If your ex mentions their single status frequently, pay attention.
Discussing their lack of a dating life signals they’re not prepared to fully commit to someone new yet. The door may still be open for you.
Their lingering feelings could be holding them back from jumping into another relationship too soon after yours ended.
Listen closely when your ex talks about the future. Do they mention reconciliation or reigniting the spark with you?
If yes, they may be planting seeds for getting back together.
Even vague comments about their romantic prospects being unclear means their mind isn’t made up.
An openness to revisiting your relationship could be the reason why they’re still single.
9. They post cryptic messages on social media
Does your ex share posts on social media that suggest they haven’t moved on from the relationship? This is a clear sign they’re not over you.
From bitter quotes about heartbreak to posts about betrayal, they’re dropping not-so-cryptic hints about their feelings.
According to Hackspirit, sharing status updates directed at you without naming names is a desperate ploy for attention.
Another telltale sign your ex still loves you is when they randomly share old photos and memories of your relationship.
If they’re engaging with you online and sharing indirect posts on their timeline, they may be trying to see if you’re still interested in them before making a move.
Conclusion
I’ve highlighted the telltale signs your ex might be coming back to you soon.
While it’s tempting to read into every little thing, try not to drive yourself crazy overanalyzing their actions.
Focus on healing and moving forward, whether they come back or not.
At the end of the day, you deserve someone who’s all in—not someone playing hot and cold.
If your ex does resurface, take things slow and make sure you’re both on the same page this time around.
And remember, sometimes an ex is an ex for a good reason. Trust your gut and do what’s best for you, whatever that may be.
Recommended reading:
7 Clear Signs Your Ex Is Never Coming Back
10 Sneaky Signs Your Ex Wants You Back
How To Get Your Ex Back: A Step-By-Step Guide
About The Author
Jennifer Dagi
Jennifer Dagi is happily married to her best friend and the love of her life.
As a relationship coach, she is passionate about helping couples build healthy and happy relationships.
She strongly believes communication and intimacy are the most important ingredients for building a successful relationship.
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